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Spinner
July 30th, 2011, 10:09 PM
I probably am a bad person no no I am. I see a little girl about 7-10 younger older and I think sexual thoughts and how want them to jerk me off but I know I won't do it and then again I will have another urge and I found myself masterbaiting to a young girl but this has only happened twice. It has happened to me by someone older I gues I have the urges because it was done to me . I'm I a bad person?
Upintheair
July 30th, 2011, 10:12 PM
you are not a bad person! Often times if you have had something done to you by someone that you didnt want or when you were at a young age, it can have very disturbing psychological effects! also, sometime weird fantasies come into our heads that we cant stop! the difference is that its in your head! Dont act upon these thoughts and there is really no problem
Spinner
July 30th, 2011, 10:18 PM
Thanks but my stubbornness keeps me think I'm a terrible person.I won't act on them because I look at a younger girl and realize if I did her life won't be innocent that little girls life could be ruined because of my selfishness!
Upintheair
July 30th, 2011, 10:20 PM
which is exactly why your not a bad person! bad people act upon those thoughts! trust me, you are completely okay. we cant help what pops into our heads, but we can help what we do about it!
flumeendeavors
July 31st, 2011, 12:39 PM
Its so normal to fantasize about different things! Ive fantasized about getting raped but of course that would be horrible if it actually happened. I would say its fine and normal just as long as you dont act on it.
Skyhawk
July 31st, 2011, 12:51 PM
There's fantasy, and then there's reality. I prefer to keep them separate for "safety reasons".
Unlucky_Leprechaun
July 31st, 2011, 01:35 PM
I think that your fine also. I mean we all have dreams and weird moments. Traumatic stuff happening to you can have a disastrous affect on your mental well being. Again, like the other posters have said, just don't act on them and you will be fine..and you will outgrow this and be a better person because of it
ExhibitG
July 31st, 2011, 01:47 PM
There's fantasy, and then there's reality. I prefer to keep them separate for "safety reasons".

short, sweet, and to the point.