can someone give me some advice please?

[sarahgilles40]

im a 13 year old girl ive had sex and masturbate quite often. i have two questions id like to ask u all
1. i find myself now no longer sexually attracted to guys and am having difficulty comeing to terms with my ne attraction to girls it seems to be whenever i see a semi naked girl i uncontrolable get the need to masturbate which is very difficult as i am part of a swim team and we have to shower and change together i find myself masturbating in the toilet just to releave myself i was hoping someone had some advice for a sexually confused 13 year old girl.

2. the second thing i wanted to ask is that i have an older sister she is 19 and regularly has a guy round and our room is joined and i keep hearing her orgasm and when i hear her i find myself fantasizing about her naked and i end up masturbating to the noise of her orgasm and i keep trying to catch her naked when she comes out the shower and when im alone im in her room and searching for a video of her or panties that she has worn. she doesnt know i do this and i know its wrong to do i was just hoping i wasnt the only one to do this and wasnt the only one who and sexual fantasys about a relative of theirs.

i appreciate any answer you can give
sarah

[Alt217339]

for your first question: you need to learn to control yourself. just because you see naked people it doesnt mean you NEED to masturbate. wait for another time if you want to.

[sophierocks]

its not uncommen for people to have a crush on their siblings, maybe if you talk to her about it you might get over it

[sarahgilles40]

thanks for the advice ill try and do what u suggest and see what happens :)

[flumeendeavors]

I would say talk to her about it. It's normal to fantasize and we get reall wierd fantasies sometimes but dont worry about it and as for the first part...its okay. You're young and finding yourself so dont freak out if you're just going through this phase of finding yourself.

[ExhibitG]

i think you are just at an extremely hormonal part of your life, which is normal. you are just curious about women. you are a little young to know for sure your sexuality, but you'll know eventually.

also, i personally advise to stay away from sex at just 13.

EDIT: totally didn't realize this was in the Puberty for Girls forum. i saw it under New Posts at the top and just clicked it without checking. my fault, though i think my opinion stated above is generally accepted by any gender.