Little Brother Help!

[acid_rayne]

So Im 15, And today my little brother whos 13 asked me if he could see my dick:o I Quickly changed the subject. Is this strange has your younger brother done this before???
What if he asked again? Should i confrount him about this and Talk to Him??
Should i let him see it or not?

BTW we sleep in the same room, But never see each other nude

Please Help:confused::confused::confused:

[Drew Tyler]

I don't think it's strange. It all depends on how you feel about the subject. Ask him why does he want to see it. If you're uncomfortable about it, talk to him. If not, then go for it. I had a lot of people ask me to let them see it. Hey, only do what your comfortable with. He might just be curious and have a lot of questions about his penis and is afraid to ask you or anyone. And "let me see your dick" might answer those question!!

[Gummi]

He might have questions and wants to see if yours is like his before he asks them. Maybe he thinks that if it gets bigger thats bad, idk, but if your ok with it then I suggest doing it because it could help him.

[acid_rayne]

im fine with it but i just dont want him going around and telling anyone, plus what if he is doing this to other people 2? me and him are close and all that

[Drew Tyler]

yeah, that would be my concern. If he goes and tell other people or your parents. That would be embarrassing. Test him on it. See if he is trustworthy or not. Tell him a secrete and if he tells it, don't trust him. And if he keeps it, hey, he's a decent person. And if he's doing this to other people, hey, so what. that's on him and his friends. He may be curious and wants to experiment or likes what he's already done. A lot of brothers experiment with each other, it's quit normal.

[Rodeo]

I would say if your comfortable with it to go for it alot of brothers experiment with each other. I wish I would have had an older brother to talk to and experiment with.

[Drew Tyler]

I would say if your comfortable with it to go for it alot of brothers experiment with each other. I wish I would have had an older brother to talk to and experiment with.

me too. I'm jealous of this!! lol:P

[Orton220]

As long as its not for sexual purposes then its okay

[predatorsfan21]

I would say if your comfortable with it to go for it alot of brothers experiment with each other. I wish I would have had an older brother to talk to and experiment with.

I do, but he is 8 years older than me...so it is kinda awkward opposed to only being 2,3,4 years older

[ExhibitG]

I think I would just ask him why and go from there. If he has a valid reason and seems sincere about it, such as curiosity, then go for it.

[acid_rayne]

well i have got like a real mans body now if u get what i mean and i kno that hes just started pubery, he dosnt have many firends at school he tends to stick to himself so the questions is if i do show him how would i like do it??

[ExhibitG]

well i have got like a real mans body now if u get what i mean and i kno that hes just started pubery, he dosnt have many firends at school he tends to stick to himself so the questions is if i do show him how would i like do it??

Pull it out I guess? lol I'm not sure. Again, I would talk to him more about it first.

[acid_rayne]

What would i talk to him about though

[ExhibitG]

try and find the reason why he wants to see it and get his trust.

[acid_rayne]

ill talk to him tonight and let you know

[ExhibitG]

k good luck :)

[Michigan48111]

I think you should talk to him and answer his questions, he is just curious about what's going on with his body and is he normal with others his age. I think that's part of the job of big brother so help him out where you can.

[Just _1_ Look]

Maybe he's curious! Talk to him and see..if you already haven't :)

[acid_rayne]

well i had a little chat with him and talked about if hes been asking other people this and he said no and i said why do you want to see it and he said to see ifs his is normal and to see what he will look like when he is older and i said ok ill talk to you later


What do you think i shoudl do now??

[rhershy]

its not strange at all hes just curious

[ExhibitG]

I think you can probably do it. I mean it just seems like he's curious, that's all. just make sure he understands he shouldn't go around talking about it.

[Idek912]

He probably is just curious or wants to compare

[Drew Tyler]

well i had a little chat with him and talked about if hes been asking other people this and he said no and i said why do you want to see it and he said to see ifs his is normal and to see what he will look like when he is older and i said ok ill talk to you later


What do you think i shoudl do now??

Well, ask him questions about what he thinks might happen and what he knows about the changes. You can show him yours if your comfortable with it. And just explain that whatever yours looks like, probably won't happen to his. And just show him this website so if he has anymore questions he can come here and search for answers.

[Kujiro]

Your little brother is going thru what we are all going thru, the same level of sexual curiousity, and being inquisitive is very common.

As the cycle goes, these are topics which are pretty hard to bring up to parents, hence he decided to confine them in you.
Now i am sure you too understand how difficult it is for your parents to share these, alternatively you may direct him to VT to learn share and grow, if you find certain topics uncomfortable.

Afterall im sure you have learn alot from forumers here as well.

Cheers
*smile*

[Wombo]

I had the same curiosity from my little brother, he kept trying to walk in on me in the shower to look. Eventually I thought it best to talk and show with him, then him asking the wrong person.

It kinda wierd the first time I showed him, but ever since I think it has made us closer and now he always comes to me and asks stuff.
Only do what you want and are comfortable with.

More then happy to answer any questions if you need.

[acid_rayne]

Thanks guy I Guess ill show him I guess it will help him. Lol i might have to teach him how to use a computer haha

[prob1996]

Only do what ur comfortable with. I have an older bro and I used to ask him all sort of questions and he was extremely helpful in teaching me about puberty and all its craziness. He never outright showed me but then again we shared a room and were comfortable being naked around each anyway. He did refer me to alot of sites online to chk things for myself but he created a trust between us so that if I did have a question I was comfortable in asking him.

[SWMG]

After talking to him you should do what you feel comfortable with and you trust each other enough then you might want to do what he asked for

[White Stocking Cap]

Well, I think it's good on you for showing him. In the end it should make your bond closer. I had just recently gain two step brother's but, they're not exactly the type to do this type of thing. So, I commonly refer to the internet, VT mostly, or friends from the internet for questions. I do suggest after asking him if he has any questions or anything. Or if maybe he likes boys too, or kind of does. I mean, just do to the fact that, that might also make him trust you more. Be sure to put your full love and support in him, because I've never had the chance to feel that (Well I guess my step sister helped me with that :)) from an older brother. I hope I helped. :)

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

I don't think it's strange. It all depends on how you feel about the subject. Ask him why does he want to see it. If you're uncomfortable about it, talk to him. If not, then go for it. I had a lot of people ask me to let them see it. Hey, only do what your comfortable with. He might just be curious and have a lot of questions about his penis and is afraid to ask you or anyone. And "let me see your dick" might answer those question!!


It shouldn't hurt to show him and fully answer all his questions. Let him know that he can come to you and get advice, etc... Do the I show you mine if you show me yours first, so then he really can't go to parents or other friends and talk about it. He sounds concerned and just wants puberty answers...kinda like most people on here. :-)

[mikephelps]

IDK I'm 14 and my brother just turned 13 we've seen each other . ?He's actualy bigger than me and has pubes already. But we compare and talk I don't think there's anything wrong

[acid_rayne]

well thanks for the help guys :) :)

[Dylan Tyde]

He is just curious, be open with him. ask him why he wants to see it, explain that you find it awkward. and then show him or dont depending on how you feel, neither is wrong.

[Example..]

seems to me like hes just curious as to what size he will be when hes older, and if its not for any sexual purpose i think it will be ok to show him.

[josh1817ua]

well i don't have a brother and friends that do that kind of stuff i have always wanted to talk to someone and experiment with them i still fill like ur brother and i think that u should talk to him and show him some things that u know about just tell him to not tell anyone about anything u guys do so i hope that u can help ur bro and good luck

[acid_rayne]

well tonight mum and dad are going out for tea and im looking after him. So i might do it tonigh Ill let you know how it goes!
Wish me luck

[Nicky97]

Man, he's your BROTHER !!! All these years and you don't know what's going on? You're uncomfortable talking to him or trusting him? Where have you guys been all this time? Guess your world is different from mine.

OK, it's not wrong or anything, just different from what I think "brothers" should be.

[acid_rayne]

Man, he's your BROTHER !!! All these years and you don't know what's going on? You're uncomfortable talking to him or trusting him? Where have you guys been all this time? Guess your world is different from mine.

OK, it's not wrong or anything, just different from what I think "brothers" should be.

well we just recently just moved into a room togeather and started to get a bit more closer before that he used to live with his dad hes really my half brother but we just treat each other like brothers

[CryWolf]

I'm 15 and my lil bro is 14. We went through this a few years ago when he first started puberty. We have always been close so I was able to talk to him, answer his questions (best I could) and explain some stuff. We share a room now and we have done stuff around each other, so I think being open has helped in that regard. Main thing is to not make him feel weird for being curious about what he's going through. Do it if you feel okay with it, and there's nothing wrong with explaining to him that this isn't something to be shared by all. I'm sure you'll do fine. Just be a big bro :)

[acid_rayne]

yea i really want to help him i really want to make ou rbond closer

[Puberty21]

just show him it'll answer his questions and be good for the both of you.

[acid_rayne]

well it was intresting wht went down

[tyler17OKC]

well it was intresting wht went down

What happened? I admire you and your brother for being so close about this. I would never be able to talk to my older brother about anything. He must really admire you.

[moorandr]

Yeah how did it go? I was in sort of the same predicament a few years ago with my younger cousin

[acid_rayne]

well we talked and chatted about a few things and after a while showed him he was quite intrested haha. And that was about it. i told him that if he has any questions to all ways ask me not any one else and he gave me a big thank you hug haha

[acid_rayne]

lol and he was quite amazed by me junk ahha

[you know103]

even if you and your brother are close i think brothers should not be seing each others dicks

[acid_rayne]

even if you and your brother are close i think brothers should not be seing each others dicks

whys that?

[you know103]

whys that?
well in my point of view i think that is just not right but is your choice

[acid_rayne]

k i think its made us closer really

[prob1996]

Hey, I'm glad it worked out for you & your brother! It probably did make u closer and added a new level to ur relationship! As a "little" bro, I can't tell u how glad I was (still am) that I have that bond with my big brother. Again, do only what ur comfrotable with but glad it worked out for you!

[adam1995]

well in my point of view i think that is just not right but is your choice

My brother and I have seen each other nude since we were small. We shared a room til we moved last year. Totally normal and natural. I find it unusual when I read about brothers who have never seen each other nude.

[abc16]

I wouldnt but well done for sorting it out.. :))

[StoppingTime]

I definitely don't think it's strange, and he's just curious. If you feel comfortable, you should try to approach the topic again if you think he wants to.

[spires]

dood dont listen to these people dont show him your dick u and him are close and plus it would be akward. he is 13 and starting to be curious bout things just be a older brother and just explain things to him and anser his questions he got

[alh1994]

Hey man im glad that worked out for you! always good to hear about brothers helping each other out! i have a younger brother too and went through a similar deal and it hlped him so i was happy i could!

[mynameisJ]

He might have questions and wants to see if yours is like his before he asks them. Maybe he thinks that if it gets bigger thats bad, idk, but if your ok with it then I suggest doing it because it could help him.

I agree just ask him first

[WonderTastic]

It's not strange and weird but if you guys are close it shouldn't be a problem ....he probably just wondering and stuff

[Ambrosia]

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