A point on "inappropriateness"

[chazzrox2]

I literally just wrote a thread and, though i have to congratulate the mod team, it was taken down pretty damn fast.

I didn't think it was entirely innapropriate at all... Maybe its just me but it is a question which i really did want answers to...im not sure if what is happening in my relationship id normal or not really.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=110479

That's the link, i just want it brought to attention that i've noticed some threads much less innapropriate than my own locked.

I hope the right people read this but i ultimately respect the decisions of the mods......if it is a JOINT MOD APPROACH

Perhaps a forum dedicated to appeals and what not?

Cheers for understanding anyway

[TheMatrix]

I don't understand. Lexi was right - it isn't puberty related at all.
It will eventually lead to disgusting stories -- and we can't have that now, can we?

You've been here since 2006. I'd think you'd know the rules by now.

And if you want a forum for appeals, that is here. VTHQ.

[chazzrox2]

Sorry i guess i just didn't see it that way, i'm kinda naive.

But still you got to it in like 4 seconds, pretty good lol

Anyway, yea, sorry

[TheMatrix]

That's okay. If you'd like your dignity spared, report your original post with the explanation "Please lock to save dignity" or something like that ;)

[Ambrosia]

Have you read the rules to that forum? What does people doing things in other peoples mouths have to do with puberty? :eek: Absolutely nothing. That was more of a thread that would attract trolls to discuss their sexual exploits than anything. People would have started arguing about it, blah blah.

I just so happened to be there at the time you posted it. I'm a ninja like that. But come on, what does that have to do with puberty? :P I mean, really.

[chazzrox2]

Sorry, don't get angry at me jeez.

I just thought that would be the best place, i just don't see why that would encourage trolls and shit. Where would you suggest?
Probably nowhere, but i do think good sex between couples is really important and i really wanted to know if my sex life is......idk.....normal?

[TheMatrix]

You're on the wrong site, buddy.
If you want to talk about that, then you'll have to go somewhere else. This is not a sex forum.

inb4 lock

[chazzrox2]

Yea sorry man just forget the whole incident.

But still what about some kind of appeal forum? Or is this it?

[Ambrosia]

I wasn't being mean. I was pointing out a fact.

But you could always rewrite the post in a less sexually explicit way and put it in relationships and dating or something.

[TheMatrix]

But still what about some kind of appeal forum? Or is this it?
This is it, yes.
If you want more reasons why we shouldn't have one, post a new thread in Suggestions.

[chazzrox2]

Nah that's all now i think. Thanks for clearing everything up anyway :)

[Donkey]

Yeah, it is a joint mod approach - nothing to do with Lexi.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/announcement.php?f=129&a=229

If we let people run free and talk about sexual experiences, VT just becomes a host to erotic literature for pedophiles and horny teenagers.

[nick]

What does people doing dirty things in other peoples mouths have to do with puberty?
Is that really an appropriate view/description/comment on oral sex from a help moderator?

So heterosexual vaginal sex, by implication, is "doing dirty things in a vagina", masturbation is "doing dirty things with your hand".

I preferred it in the days when we advised people these things are normal behaviour and not dirty at all.

[DerBear]

Is that really an appropriate view/description/comment on oral sex from a help moderator?

So heterosexual vaginal sex, by implication, is "doing dirty things in a vagina", masturbation is "doing dirty things with your hand".

I preferred it in the days when we advised people these things are normal behaviour and not dirty at all.

I think it is always about your morals and opinons and even a help mods should never change there morals and opinons or you become fake and blinded

[Ambrosia]

Honestly, I would be the last person to ever tell someone that anything Sex-Related is dirty in a way meaning bad. If I had wished for it to be taken the way you(And mind you, only you up until now) saw it I would have changed it to say, "What does people doing horribly wrong and unmoral things in other peoples mouths have to do with puberty?".

But I didn't put that, now did I? No, no, I don't think I did. This entire thread is over a Post, not how you believe Moderators advise people on Sex Ed wrongly. Because, in all honesty, I don't see anywhere that the OP asked whether or not I believed Oral Sex was wrong and where I wrote it was. Hmm...

Anyways, end of discussion. No need to further this entire conversation and throw the whole Thread off track.