Friends brother gave BJ while I slept

[WorthlessMale]

Hi I'm Robert, 13 yrs old. I'm new here and looking at other post, but I couldn't find anything like this. I'll try to ask without "telling a story" as for the rules, so I'll try to keep out the major details.

A few weeks ago I had a sleep over with a friend. His 11 yr old brother hung out with us too (played xbox and stuff). After we went to bed (seperate rooms) it was late and I went right to sleep. I woke up to his brother giving me oral. I didn't say anything, I acted like I was sleeping, so I let him finish.

I feel I should have stopped him, but I was in the "moment". I don't know what to do now. I don't "experiment" with guys or do I want to.

Do I confront my friend about this, or just his brother? My problem is that my friend ask me to stay over for the whole weekend, starting tonight. (he just bought new games for his xbox) He also said his brother is excited that I was staying over.

How should I handle this????

[itsthat0n3kid]

okay first an 11 year old should not know about oral.. haha but seriously, if you didnt want him to, technically that is rape.. sorta. i would definitly tell the brother. thats just not cool if you didnt agree to it.

[White Stocking Cap]

Well, it's not technically that he shouldn't know about oral, because I did, he just shouldn't do that to an older brother's friend.

Anyways back on topic, I feel you should confront his brother first, and tell him what happened then talk to the brother by yourself. Ask him why he did it and just say it was wrong. You should probably try to put gently that it was wrong, but don't put it to where he won't ever want to experiment with other boys because, then you'd be depriving him of a natural experience. Basically, I think you should go over and enjoy yourself then talk about it at night. It would do all of you good, I am quite sure :)

[WorthlessMale]

I didn't want to go into too much details, but during the situation he was naked, and he is in full puberty. BTW he's almost 12 yrs old.

[itsthat0n3kid]

Well, it's not technically that he shouldn't know about oral, because I did, he just shouldn't do that to an older brother's friend.

Anyways back on topic, I feel you should confront his brother first, and tell him what happened then talk to the brother by yourself. Ask him why he did it and just say it was wrong. You should probably try to put gently that it was wrong, but don't put it to where he won't ever want to experiment with other boys because, then you'd be depriving him of a natural experience. Basically, I think you should go over and enjoy yourself then talk about it at night. It would do all of you good, I am quite sure :)

auctually what he said is what you should do. ask the brother why first and then go from there.
good luck dude :)

[White Stocking Cap]

^ Thank you for agreeing.

The fact that he was naked doesn't really make too much of a difference other than it's very likely he masturbated over you but, that's not too horrible. If he's in full blown puberty, that means he's much like I was. He just wanted to experience giving a blowjob so he did it to you. His intentions must've been for your pleasure and his too. Thus, it's not actually that bad in reality.

[TopDog]

I agree, I think he did it while you were sleeping because he didn't want to do it with his brother (unless he already has) and he probably didn't want to ask you and make you think he was gay or something. But you got hard too?

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

I'd confront the brother when your friends not around and just explain to him that you was awake and that you like him..but not in that way..that you prefer girls..etc... tell him you wont say anything to anyone but you would appreciate it to not do it anymore (unless you want to do it again..then throw it all out the window..LOL)

[michael.95]

Right here is my point of view. If he is in full puberty then he was extremely curious and too shy to ask you face to face so he went and done it whilst you were sleeping, I must admit, it's a very strange and abnormal thing to do to someone that's older, friends with brother and is sleeping. However, DO NOT TELL HIS BROTHER, that could turn out to be the worst thing you could do, it could go horribly wrong and the young brother could end up in a lot of trouble and be hated etc. Confront the young brother first and foremost, whenever the right situation arises to ask about it, don't be harsh on him, ask in a friendly manner.

[CWteen]

sleep on your stomach :P

[judahtics]

hmmm, well, there was a very similar situation posted like this recently, however it involved a hj not a bj. this was happening, i woke up, but pretended to be asleep. you mentioned you don't want to experiment with guys, but you let him finish on you even though you were awake, that seems like a contradiction to me.

i'm surprised the brother was brave enough to come into a separate room from where he was, naked, to suck you off. even if he got naked in the room, it took alot of guts with his brother in the same room and parents in the house.

[WorthlessMale]

I agree, I think he did it while you were sleeping because he didn't want to do it with his brother (unless he already has) and he probably didn't want to ask you and make you think he was gay or something. But you got hard too?

I don't know if the brothers do that kind of stuff. We don't talk about sex that much, just about girls. I know my friend masterbates and has for some time now, we both have, but we don't talk about it, or do any experimenting. (dont plan on it either)
I'm from a small town, and people here are not very "gay" friendly, so maybe that's why he did it without asking. As for me being hard too? Let's just say I thought I woke up to a wet dream when he was doing it, so I was hard before I woke up. I was close to cumming, is why I let him finish. (plus I have to admit it felt good)

sleep on your stomach :P

Haha, I thought of that, but if he does bj's without asking, I would hate to find something in my butt in the morning. lol

Anyhow guys, thanks for the advice. If we get to be alone without my friend around I'll try to bring up the subject, or I may wait until he mentions it, or tries again. I don't want to freak him out, just inform him that it's not right to do sexual things with people without consent.

I'll let everyone know how it goes this weekend. I'm headed over there in about an hour for the weekend sleep over.

[Donkey]

Moving to Family & Friends.

[DerBear]

Well i would say something to the brother as that is kinda wrong

[WorthlessMale]

Moving to Family & Friends.

Sorry, thought it was more puberty related.

hmmm, well, there was a very similar situation posted like this recently, however it involved a hj not a bj. this was happening, i woke up, but pretended to be asleep. you mentioned you don't want to experiment with guys, but you let him finish on you even though you were awake, that seems like a contradiction to me.

i'm surprised the brother was brave enough to come into a separate room from where he was, naked, to suck you off. even if he got naked in the room, it took alot of guts with his brother in the same room and parents in the house.

Sorry, I've been reading the the posts on here for about a week before I joined yesterday, and I didn't see it.
My last post descibes why I let him continue.
The brothers have seperate rooms, and I was in the guest bedroom, all of which are in the basement, so the parents are in the main upstairs area. No body was sleeping in the same room, my friends don't do that.
I was trying not to tell a story as the rules state, so I excluded the major details.

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

I'm calling bullshit on this whole thing...

[judahtics]

I'm calling bullshit on this whole thing...

i second that

[ShatteredWings]

I'm calling bullshit on this whole thing...

i second that

I call it's not your place to call someone's story "bullshit"

[DerBear]

I call it's not your place to call someone's story "bullshit"

I Second That

[giggles]

tell us wat happened after your next sleepover

[WorthlessMale]

Well guess if this is bullshit, then I guess I'll go elsewhere for advice, or you could keep your advice to yourself. Either way I'm out of here. My ride to my friend's house is here.

[Kujiro]

It is evident that your friend's brother is curious, and yet shy to ask for experimentation.
There are things which even for siblings its pretty difficult to bring up.

Ive just replied a post relatively similar to this on p101, but what you can do would to sit down have and an open conversation between you and your friend's brother.

Put it directly if you like it or not, but in respect to him, i would advise against telling it to his brother directly. Even what he has done is morally not right, it would save alot of his diginity and in return gain his respect.

It really depends on how you wish to approach this matter, but regardless, do it with as little emotional damage as possible, with a little luck you may lead him the right direction in growing up.

All the best :)
Cheers

[judahtics]

i'm sorry i shouldn't have seconded the bullshit comment. hopefully you won't be molested this weekend.

[Ben Michael]

I third, that's a thing that you should probably tell his brother or his parents about

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

This is kind of obviously a fail troll. No one just keeps willingly going back to some place they basically know they'll get raped at. There are two options and both end with him sucking at trolling. Either the whole story is bullshit, or it's not but he likes it so he just wants to post on here to piss people off.

[Ambrosia]

This is kind of obviously a fail troll. No one just keeps willingly going back to some place they basically know they'll get raped at. There are two options and both end with him sucking at trolling. Either the whole story is bullshit, or it's not but he likes it so he just wants to post on here to piss people off.

If you don't like reading what he has to ask then steer clear of his posts. Kay? (: Great. Thanks. Let's not troll other peoples stuff and/or start fights in their threads.

[spires]

i would tell my friend what happend so that it wont be akward every time u come over. and u should of stopped wen his bro was giving u oral in the moment or not man good luck

[kai99]

I suppose you should talk to the 11yo boy, and ask why he did that

[Nicky97]

Back to the subject at hand... (trolls come in all sizes)

Don't betray him by informing brother, parents, or anyone else. Do be clear to him, but you can't claim that you had no part in this.

Personally, out in the country where I come from, you get oral from anyone you can. Good is good. Don't create drama where solid communication would solve the problem.

[WorthlessMale]

I'd like to thank the people that gave me good advice, the rest of you troll seekers can go back to masterbating your small dick to porn until you're 30, when you finally have to pay a hooker so you can loose your virginity.

Now that my ranting is over, I can tell you what happened this weekend. Friday night when I went over for the sleepover, everything was fine. No wierd feelings. Later when my friend went upstairs to make some frozen pizzas for a late night snack, I was able to be alone with his brother. I told him I woke up in the middle of the bj he gave me. I told him it was ok if he wanted to do that stuff with guys, but it wasn't ok to do it without asking a person first. It's better to have someone freak out to you asking the question, then to have them freak out during the act. I asked him what would have happened if I freaked out and started yelling at him when I woke, and then the whole family came in to see what was going on. He agreed. He never thought about it.

So that part went well. I know it did because later that night I piled my clothes in front of the bedroom door, and they were still in the same place in the morning.

And for those of you wondering, he did ask if he could do it again saturday morning. I told him I was still uncomfortable with the idea, but I will think about it, AND thanks for asking this time. I also told him that I have no interest in giving one back. He said he didn't care if the it was returned, he just likes doing it. Later that morning my friend went to mow his grandmas lawn, so I agreed to it. Twice.

[UnknownError]

D'aaaaw, how romantic.

[Rodeo]

Wow dude thats pretty cool luky you I wish that would happen to me even just once. Maybe you can get a bj everytime you go to your friends house.

[judahtics]

i'd be careful with the an age difference. if this kid is only 11, it could be bad to engage him in these activities.

[WorthlessMale]

i'd be careful with the an age difference. if this kid is only 11, it could be bad to engage him in these activities.

He'll be 12 in a few weeks, and I just turned 13 three weeks ago. So there isn't a large age difference. If it happens again, it will be up to him. I won't press it.

[DJZS]

just tell the kid who did it that you dont want him to agian. be nice to him though.

[Riotboy]

if i was you he would of flown in the wall Supaaah kick

[Brian12]

Hi I'm Robert, 13 yrs old. I'm new here and looking at other post, but I couldn't find anything like this. I'll try to ask without "telling a story" as for the rules, so I'll try to keep out the major details.

A few weeks ago I had a sleep over with a friend. His 11 yr old brother hung out with us too (played xbox and stuff). After we went to bed (seperate rooms) it was late and I went right to sleep. I woke up to his brother giving me oral. I didn't say anything, I acted like I was sleeping, so I let him finish.

I feel I should have stopped him, but I was in the "moment". I don't know what to do now. I don't "experiment" with guys or do I want to.

Do I confront my friend about this, or just his brother? My problem is that my friend ask me to stay over for the whole weekend, starting tonight. (he just bought new games for his xbox) He also said his brother is excited that I was staying over.

How should I handle this????

I think that sounds like fun. I would let him finish me too.

[Donkey]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: