Room sharing?

[afronteboi]

I going to go live with my dad and half brother, from tomorrow, now my Dad's place is really small so i'll have to share a room, my question is for u guys who share a room with siblings, how do u manage ur private affairs, u kno like J/o, do u like let the other person know that u need the room for a while, do u just do it in front of em, I'm asking earnestly cause I have never shared before, and i dread the taught of waking up with m/w or having a w/d or even changing in front of anyone, i already have to for swim class and its uncomfortable to say the least.

[Jstr]

its okay cuase their your family they been through wat your goin through and the changing for swim class its okay to worry but remember your not the only one changing, they r think wat you r thinkin

[Giles]

How you proceed with regards to masturbating is up to you and depends on the relationship you've got with the person you're sharing the room with. If you feel that it would be acceptable to simply ask for the room for a while then you do that, if you really want you could just do it but that's not the best idea. Other than that you still have the shower.

[afronteboi]

its okay cuase their your family they been through wat your goin through and the changing for swim class its okay to worry but remember your not the only one changing, they r think wat you r thinkin
I know it's my fam. and all but i just wanted a lil feedback on how others handle sharing a room, u kno when u need to have a private moment.

[Jstr]

i will take a shower or wait till my fother is gone and jack off with my bro in the room

[Kujiro]

I fully understand the position you are in when you are sharing a room, at times it just gets very inconvient.

In such a case, you do not really have much of a choice, but to bring your private matters to the bath room, or only do it when no one is at home.
There is really nothing much you can do, alternatively you can create a habit of knocking before entering, hence they would do the same.

Good luck
*smile*

[Starlight Blaze]

well I've shared a room literally nearly all my life... I just always did it in the shower or after I knew everyone had gone to bed...as for changing, I would usually go to the bathroom for that too

[Upintheair]

yea i used to share a room, and it got a little bit awkward when my boyfriend was over and such because its just weird to have someone watching you but i would just say something along the lines of "hey can i have a minute?" and usually they get the picture

[Jace]

I used to share a room, now I live in a little apartment above the gage with my older bro. We always beat off together growing up and still do. We are totally cool with each other being naked or j/o or anything like that. It's prob because he was always conscious of making me feel unembarrassed about puberty. My dad wasn't a good guy, so he helped me out with that stuff.

[canyon]

yea i used to share a room, and it got a little bit awkward when my boyfriend was over and such because its just weird to have someone watching you but i would just say something along the lines of "hey can i have a minute?" and usually they get the picture

Uh, puberty for boys.. Wrong section.

As to your question, just do what you're comfortable with. There are other places to Jack off besides the bedroom. Try the bathroom when you're in the shower or something, or just ask your brother if he jacks off and go from there

[wolfbird_94]

I just do it when my bro is asleep

[IAMWILL]

There was a thread on here earlier titled "Brothers" that is in the archive now but it had a lot of responses from people who had to share rooms with their brothers and such. I'm to lazy to link it but it's probably only a few pages back in the P101 archive.

The general resonse seemed to be though that most guys after a bit jus would jack off with their bros and they didn't really care. You're gonna have to cross that bridge sometime soon so just be open to it if you're comfortable and I bet your step brother will be too.

[villain]

I shared a room with my older brother and he used to j/o at night when he thinks i'm asleep but he ends up waking me up in the process.... Its not that bad to sleep in a bed with him

[prob1996]

I used to share a room with my older brother and it did get a little tough at itmes fro privacy. We both used to wait till we thought the other was asleep to start masturbating. Other times we would do it when we knew the other person was going to be home for awhile. Of course there was a few times when we accidently caught the other one. XD Bathroom, in the shower probably ur best bet for total privacy.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

I am fortunate not to have ever been put in that situation. But, you and your half-bro will just have to work out a system. You did not mention the age difference or if you two are close or not, that would change the dynamics a lot. At first, just go with the flow and try to do stuff when your alone, at night, in the shower or some place alternately and feel how things are gonna go. I am sure your half- bro is feeling the same anxiety with you moving in...

[afronteboi]

I am fortunate not to have ever been put in that situation. But, you and your half-bro will just have to work out a system. You did not mention the age difference or if you two are close or not, that would change the dynamics a lot. At first, just go with the flow and try to do stuff when your alone, at night, in the shower or some place alternately and feel how things are gonna go. I am sure your half- bro is feeling the same anxiety with you moving in...

He's either 18 or 19 i think and he hates my guts, so i don't think his anxiety will be quelled so easily. thanks tho.

[lambo420]

Either when he is sleeping, Or just go to the bathroom.

[CryWolf]

Well it's gonna be different for due to the relationship. My bro is 1 yr younger than me and we share a room and a bed. Me and him are close tho, so we never really worry about the privacy issue. Based on what you said about his age and how he feels about you it seems the best thing to do would be to time it when he's not there or do it in the bathroom. Also, try not to worry to much. Give it a little time. He may not hate you like you think and you 2 might get along great and be able to communicate. You never know. Hope the best for you! :)

[Dylan Tyde]

I have always shared a room (with my little bro) you will get used to it and find a way that works for you

[judahtics]

j.o. i use another room or wait until people are asleep, then there is the option of doing it together or maybe not together, but not caring that he's there.

changing, i always wear the next days boxers to bed. so i don't have to get naked in front of anyone. it doesn't bother me doing that, but my general option is boxers i'll be wearing the next day. if i have a wet dream, then i change cause well, i'm not gonna wear those jizzed up boxers all day.

[Hyiirocks]

j/o in the bathroom thats what i did and nobody ever knows

[afronteboi]

j.o. i use another room or wait until people are asleep, then there is the option of doing it together or maybe not together, but not caring that he's there.

changing, i always wear the next days boxers to bed. so i don't have to get naked in front of anyone. it doesn't bother me doing that, but my general option is boxers i'll be wearing the next day. if i have a wet dream, then i change cause well, i'm not gonna wear those jizzed up boxers all day.

I am def. not gonna do anything with him, that's a no no for me, as far as changing goes, it's my second night at my dad's and I have been changing in the bthrm. I do care that he there tho, he makes me really uncomfortable. and I haven't had a jerk since i got there.

[judahtics]

I am def. not gonna do anything with him, that's a no no for me, as far as changing goes, it's my second night at my dad's and I have been changing in the bthrm. I do care that he there tho, he makes me really uncomfortable. and I haven't had a jerk since i got there.

try the bathroom. you can always lay down a towel and lay on it if you need to be reclined to help you feel more comfortable to j.o.

[BigG]

If your uncomfortable doing it out in the open lay down on your bed and do it under the covers and if he walks in pretend your asleep or changing clothes, for now I sure eventually ou two will become more comfortable with this issue as time goes by.-BigG