View Full Version : How well do you like to know someone before dating them?
humanesquire
July 27th, 2011, 04:56 PM
Do you have a set amount of time knowing the person or do you hang out with them enough or what?
anonymous53
July 27th, 2011, 05:52 PM
Until I know who they truely are. Many people hide who they are.
Angel Androgynous
July 27th, 2011, 05:54 PM
It depends. Before I date someone, they have to be my friend and I have to develop a platonic love for them first. (:
It can be a few months to a year!
burner10
July 27th, 2011, 06:01 PM
It's good to get to know them. but from personal experience don't get to friendly because you'll get stuck in the friend zone
Schizothemia
July 27th, 2011, 07:57 PM
Typically speaking, dating is what actually leads to the build up of the relationship.
I've gone on blind dates that lead to long lasting relationships, and I've been on dates with friends I've known for years only for us to realize it's silly and that it was just a fit of loneliness that brought us together. I really don't have a specific time set, I just go with what feels right and that can be anywhere from no time at all, to 5-6 years (not that I have a lust or love for them relationship wise, but it might take that time and for something to happen in order for me to see them that way.)
Resistance
July 27th, 2011, 08:48 PM
It dependes, I think there isn't a specific time...when you think you are ready, you start to hang out with that person :D
Hank Hill
July 27th, 2011, 11:16 PM
I don't think that love, or relationships, are something you can really plan. It just seems to happen, and you shouldn't try to control it. Haha I think you should at least know the person before you ask them out, but you shouldn't try to narrow it down to a specific time before doing it. "I've known her for 2 months, 25 days, and 4 hours...time to ask her out." Just go with the flow, bro :D
LuckyLuke
July 27th, 2011, 11:23 PM
I don't care how well I know them, that's the point of dating- to get to know someone. The wonderful girl I'm going out with now I had met at a cousins concert once and, well, I started texting her and it led to us dating for about 3+ months now and it's still great.
Would I kiss or have sex with someone I didn't know well or didn't date? No. But that's a totally different question.
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