I Lost A Mate

[harry-the-dark]

Hi VT i have been on your site before but that was on a mates account and when he found out it was against the rules he changed his password...(that does not matter made 1 post only lol)

So anyway I lost a friend a person I used to hold dear to me but i hurt him in more ways than one and he never did a single thing wrong he was kind and i treated him bad now i have no one

Any advice on how to get him back?

[Tristin.]

well, talk to him :) thats the best i can advise, but, as much as i hate to say it, be prepared for the possible outcome that he may not want to talk to you. i hope he does and you sort things out, but you may have to accept things and move on.

all my luck :)

[CryWolf]

All you can do is talk to him. If you really feel you did something wrong then say you're sorry and mean it. After that it's up to him to forgive you or not. That part of it you can't control. If you go into with the idea of saying you're sorry about a wrong you committed rather than what can I do to win him over, it will work out better for you. That way it's a sincere attempt to simply say "I'm sorry". I hope it all works out for you :)

[Kujiro]

You should slap your self on the forehead, pick up the courage and apologise, this time really sincerely.
Its very common to mess up alittle once in a while over friends, and normally after a cooling period everything should get alot better.

Talk to him when hes alittle cool off, but not too long to let him become a stranger.
There are times you just have to pull off that ego and a simple apology and a smile will dissolve much anger deep inside.

Meanwhile you should reflect on what happened and look at things in his perspective, putting yourself in his shoes will generally give you an idea why is he pissed with you.

If he does value you as a friend, im sure for the sake of good times let it pass, but dont take it for granted once again and the vicious cycle begins.

Everyone has their limitations, and its normal for the best of friends who tend to be too close; at times be alittle insensitive to each other's feelings.
To err is human but to forgive is divine.

But trust me on this one, talk to him, just him and you in the park or something.
Mold things over, im sure it will be better after which.
But bear in mind, people will forgive, but will hardly forget.

A best friend, is someone whom you can go the the park with you, not saying a word to each other, and walk home, feeling it was the best conversation you both ever had.
Good luck and all the best.
*Smile*

[DerBear]

Hi VT i have been on your site before but that was on a mates account and when he found out it was against the rules he changed his password...(that does not matter made 1 post only lol)

So anyway I lost a friend a person I used to hold dear to me but i hurt him in more ways than one and he never did a single thing wrong he was kind and i treated him bad now i have no one

Any advice on how to get him back?

Ones actions can be for life and in this case it is

Goodbye my old friend

[TheMatrix]

i would try saying sorry and meaning it.
then go spend some good time together. for example, go to the park or a resturant(offer to buy a drink for him), and try to put it behind you.
the past is the past, try not to let it matter too much.
best of luck.

Ones actions can be for life and in this case it is

Goodbye my old friend
try reading the above posts :)

[DerBear]

i would try saying sorry and meaning it.
then go spend some good time together. for example, go to the park or a resturant(offer to buy a drink for him), and try to put it behind you.
the past is the past, try not to let it matter too much.
best of luck.


try reading the above posts :)

I did

and i stand by what i said