Problem: What to do?

[sean_23]

Well, I have this problem with a girl I really like and I would just like some advice on what I should do.

Well I have been out with this girl numerous times but it has never really worked out. When we went out we were both a bit stand offish and it never really took off. Anyway, after she dumped her old boyfriend before the holidays finished she came onto me during a lesson and by that I mean sitting next to me, undoing my shoelaces, staring at me constantly and not being able to keep her hands off me. The thing is even though we havent been out for long in the past I have always had a thing for her and I think she has always had a thing for me. That night I texted her asked if she liked me and she said yes and I told her I liked her. During the period between now and then it has been a bit awkward at school, we havent communicated much and it hasnt helped with my friends being full on like stirring us up a lot. Today, she talked more with some other guys but I didn't talk to her hardly at all mainly because I was confused who she actually likes as she was 'friendly' with a few other guys although she has always been that way, she communicates more with guys she doesn't have feelings for more than friends rather than the ones she does. Anyway, I asked her out tonight, the answer was no and she said she likes me but she doesn't want to go out with anyone but might in the future. What should I do here?, confusion has stopped me a bit from communicating with her but she still likes me. I just want to hang around her more and talk more often but should I make a move on her or should we stay good friends?

[Hyper]

So wait.. You text her back that you like her and thats it? And when she 'tests' you, you do nothing and then invite her out the same night.. Comon of course she said no.. You just need some confidence and forget your 'friends'

[Jamz]

She didn't say no... and who says she was testing him, she could've really not been interested at that time. Don't be so stereotypical of all girls..

To the OP, wait a month or two and ask again, if she says the same thing then she really did mean no at the start, IMO that is...

[sean_23]

I have been attempting to talk to her lately like sitting around with her group of friends and chatting but she just doesnt want any of it and pretends im not there. The night before that started happening she said she 'loved me'. Anyway we havent talked too much, my friends asked her if she liked me (more than a friend) and she said sort of. IM CONFUSED!

[boredkidallthetime!]

not to be mean or anything but why are you still going out with her if she keeps dissing you,
1. She Ignores you
2. She doesn't talk to you
3. You said she was being 'friendly' with the other guys.

i don't think your relationship is going anywhere. You at least are trying if she isn't trying back then you should dump her.

[sean_23]

the news is im through with this girl, I heard she likes someone else AGAIN, i cared at first but now i couldn't care less. I think all up she has been out with 15 different guys in our year including all the boys in our year 7 class apart from 2 (im now in year 10, she hasnt changed). Anyway, the way i think of it is she doesnt treat people properly so why should i bother if she thinks of a relationship as a joke. Now i think about it when she likes you most of what you feel is being 'the next apple on the apple tree', your just the next one that will be tasted and spat out immediately. It turns out im not the only one that thinks this, her old boyfriend who she set her going out record with (3 months) dumped her because he thought she was 'bitchy' (im a bit behind, i know). It is also revealed she spread rumours about a guy that he said all this stuff out her when she was going out with her old boyfriend to get her boyfriend to fight this other guy who supposedly said bad things about her. I have found a girl who catches my bus and lives next door to me that I might have interest in or maybe im just curious. She is really nice and makes me feel happy and 'liked'. Problem fixed and i'll see how it goes with this new girl in the coming months! :) happy days!:)