Loss of virginity?? Help me :(

[SkittleBear]

If you have butt smex is considered loosing your virginity? I need to know. And I'm curious. :whoops: Thanks a bunch.

[anonymous53]

Not considered losing your virginity.

If you are planning on doing so. Use lots of lubrication and a condom. It can be painful and can also be dangerous, so be protected.

[SkittleBear]

Not considered losing your virginity.

If you are planning on doing so. Use lots of lubrication and a condom. It can be painful and can also be dangerous, so be protected.

How can it be dangerous? :confused:

[judahtics]

can rip your butt hole. go slow. if it hurts, stop. looots of lube is right!

[prob1996]

It is penetrative sex. I would consider this a loss of virginity. Then again, I'm gay so it is to me.:P

[anonymous53]

How can it be dangerous? :confused:


Anal sex exposes participants to two principal dangers: infections, due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere on the body, and physical damage to the anus and the rectum due to their vulnerability. It is generally understood that penetration can be painful.[1] Frequent anal sex is associated with hemorrhoids, anal prolapse, leakage, ano-rectal pain and ulcers and fissures.[5][9][83]



Anal sex carries with it a much greater risk of passing on sexually transmitted diseases than vaginal sex, as the anal sphincter is delicate tissue and the chances of a small tear occurring are much higher, which also provides more opportunity for diseases.[26][28] Condoms offer protection, but condoms are more likely to break or come off during anal sex, so this form of sex is riskier unless both parties are absolutely disease free.[85][86] Judy Kuriansky, a Columbia University professor and author, stated, "It really is shocking how many myths young people have about anal sex. They don't think you can get a disease from it because you're not having [vaginal] intercourse."[87] Anal sex without the use of a condom is often referred to as barebacking.[88]

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[jonjon1998]

what's butt smex? sounds like fun;)

[DoctorWho]

Ya it does mean you lost your virgity

[SkittleBear]

Oh okay.. Thank you.. What's lube by the way?..

[judahtics]

Oh okay.. Thank you.. What's lube by the way?..

slippery stuff that makes things slide easier

[anonymous53]

Lubrication is things such as "Ky Jelly" etc. In the case of anal sex use non-petroleum based lubricants. Oil based lubricants can harm you.

[SkittleBear]

Thank you very much for the information <3 :))))

[Giles]

Different people have different opinions of what virginity is classed as, some think that oral sex is losing virginity. Others think anal sex and/or vaginal penetration. It's your own opinion really.

[kentucky girl]

I don't think it is losing ur virginity at all. You only lose it when ur virgina used

[RadioPlayer]

I would consider it loosing your virginity. My advice would be, if you're gonna loose your virginity, you might as well just go vaginal.

[sarahann95]

Different people have different opinions of what virginity is classed as, some think that oral sex is losing virginity. Others think anal sex and/or vaginal penetration. It's your own opinion really.


Exactly what he said. I dated this guy, who I did oral on, and he considered it losing his virginity. I don't consider losing it unless it's vaginal. It's really your own opinion.

[Chillswil]

i think any penatration is a loss of virginity

[Nicky97]

And just what does "losing virginity" mean, and who cares in alternate situations? For gay guys, both get gratification from it. For girls, it seems a bit demeaning to me. But to each his own. To get the sphincter muscle opened up comfortably, use a lubricated little finger and massage the sphincter FROM THE INSIDE, the same way things usually happen.

[lydia.ann00]

I don't think it's losing you're v card but i don't think I would do it b4 I had regular sex. Idk I think it would b hard to be that intimate with a bf to do it. Did you try it?

[Buckhunter]

it does, any kndn of penetrative sex counts

[HaydenM]

well technically the loss of your virginity would have to be vaginal intercourse so no it wouldn't be loosing your virginity.

[Unown]

yes, in my opinion, you are luck to lose it

[randomme]

nooo

[Unown]

yes it is