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TheGreenTomato
July 26th, 2011, 12:34 PM
Hey guys n gals! U might remember me with my other posts about my lil asain crush, Noah. Well it turns out he wasnt gay/bi but its cool cuz we r like best friends. So I finally have a boy friend:) My one friend Mariah told me about him n his name is Malcolme. And hes just amazing n such a romantic. We will b on the phone 4 hours just bein like i love u. haha, so i just wanted to know, how shud i approach the start of my 1st same sex relationship?:wub::wub::wub:

AltoVaughn
July 26th, 2011, 01:27 PM
Hmm, Well if your together he already likes your personality (Or should). So you don't have to worry about that. I guess it all depends on what kind of people you both are. I would just try and do little romantic things because for me at least they make a big gesture. Things that show you have taken the time to know him well. Anything from play music you know he likes when your together too bringing his favorite drink when you meet him somewhere. If a guy knows how I like my coffee and would bring it to me I would just like die. Not because he's buying me coffee but because he knows just how I like it. Maybe that's just me, But I hope you get something from my ramblings.

Sincerely,
A hopeless Romantic :P

nameless12
July 27th, 2011, 12:13 AM
awww its so awesome that you found the guy :) congrats.
as for the aproach, you should just pick it up slowly, dont jump to anything fast, and just do everything with love, be yourself ;) .

blackout123123
July 27th, 2011, 12:41 AM
Congrats on finding him =] I wish I could too =/
Anyway, I would take it slow. As they said, be yourself and take your time, enjoying each other :)

Kujiro
July 27th, 2011, 01:20 AM
Congratulations on such a blissful beginning, it's perfect that good things happens ones in awhile for everyone

My suggestion would be to take it a step at a time, don't jump too quickly or be too demanding, mutual respect and understanding is always the first step to a successful relationship.

Don't be too careless but at the same time dont be too careful, do not be afraid to take the shot when you see the opportunity
Cheers

dontcare97
August 3rd, 2011, 10:58 PM
Do it naturally. There is no need to do anything but be yourself. You new boyfriend sounds like he likes you and I'm happy for you!