age gaps

[insanity]

.. is an almost 15 year old girl and a 21 year old guy to far apart? O.o

[anonymous53]

Yes, Way too far apart. Avoid this one as there could be serious repercussions for the guy in this situation. If you were to do anything it would be considered rape.

[LKIFMRUG9556]

Lolz i no a girl nd shes 16 and her boyfriends 25. :L

[Jess]

yes definitely. then again, didn't a 51 year old marry a 16 year old? I read it somewhere...

[insanity]

:/ mmm... possible possible, his last girlfriend was also 15 >.<

[Cybercode]

yes definitely. then again, didn't a 51 year old marry a 16 year old? I read it somewhere...

it was probably like some religious cult thing. i've seen TV shows where some guy would marry teenage girls. and i know it happens in real life. so it might be that.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

its really dangerous for the guy bc hes dating a minor which is u! so to keep you both safe i suggest a break up bc that is not very safe at all!

[Jennifer's Ashes]

Well, if you're comfortable with it, that's all that should matter. But unfortunately, other people do exist. And your relationship might be frowned upon. He might take a lot of heat for it. You have to ask yourself whether he is worth that.

[AltoVaughn]

Not okay, It should be self explanatory.

[UnknownError]

Not really. As an adult this seems like a tiny gap, but when you're a teenager even a one year gap can seem weird to other people. I'd avoid that.

[Trinity_15]

yes it is

[Dark_Desires]

yes it is a big gap but who are any of us to judge u hear things about people being 15 and being with way older people my opinion is try and always be safe

[Giles]

It is a pretty significant age gap, especially considering you're under 16 :/. If you were 16 and he was 23 then it wouldn't be so bad because you'd be of age and nothing would be illegal between you. But overall it's up to yourselves, if you are both willing to take the risks then go for it.

[wsnow97]

yes definitely.

[zakky666]

Love has no bounderies... and age is just a number. Who`s to say that your not old enough to be with him? If you really like each other then it wont matter. You no what you feel inside. Dont let people tell you otherwise. Theres always someone out there that is gonna tell you what you do, how you act and how you think is wrong.... But you do need to be carefull. Your gonna get hurt more than he will if you break up...

[Upintheair]

the only issue would be if you were having sex. he could get in alot of trouble if you are, but if not, then dating him is perfectly legal but such an age gap leads to alot of differences in maturity and interest

[Kayden]

No. Relationships that far apart are stupid. Think of him, if he gets caught that would damage his whole life. He would struggle to get a job and possible prison sentence.

[chazzrox2]

Frankly? YES

In the UK and i expect alot of other places it is ILLEGAL for an anyone of age 18+ to have sexual contact/ "date" anyone below 16, the age of consent.
Nobody question me bitches i asked a lawyer :P

[DerBear]

yes too far apart i am sorry but it is too far apart if you were 20 and he was 26/27 then that would be ok as you will of both matured but not at this age i am sorry to say

[Triceratops]

Oh God, my sister is your age and I think I would be physically sick if I knew she was dating a 21 year old.

I think it's too far apart since most 14-15 year olds haven't emotionally developed properly yet at all. When you are 16 or 17 then I don't think it's as bad. Personally, I wouldn't date anyone who's not between the ages of 16-21 years. Older guys are notorious for dating young girls just so they can easily take advantage of them, so be careful.

[kai99]

Yes, if it was a 3,4 years of difference it wouldn't be much, but 6...

[flumeendeavors]

Yes. Definitely. The oldest ive ever dated was 17 and i was 13 and even that felt too far apart for me.

[Skyhawk]

In my opinion, when you are a teen, 2 years is pushing it, when you are much older, 10 years is pushing it.

[rockandtumble]

It depends, I dont think you can generalize these things.
Ive been with guys up to 7 years older than me, and some people might see that as wrong or weird, but its what I like.
If I dont like guys my age Im not gonna isolate myself from guys all together just so its appropriate for everyone else ..

[Dan_UK]

Well, if you're comfortable with it, that's all that should matter. But unfortunately, other people do exist. And your relationship might be frowned upon. He might take a lot of heat for it. You have to ask yourself whether he is worth that.


I agree partly with the first thing you said, but "frowned upon" just really doesn't cover it, more likely you'd constantly get comments from people, he would be thought of as a Pedo, and could subsequently really mess up his life if people thought you were doing things you shouldn't


That said, I know someone who was in a sexual relationship with a 22 year old when she was 14 and luckily didn't get found out, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea

[Hopegirl]

When i was 13 i was with a 19 yr old..but nothing actually happened..together for 10 months but no sex or nything..and now my friend (15 ) is going out with a 20/21 year old for only a few months n thers sex n everything..her mum doesnt know n ther doing it in the woods..yeah i think thats wrong.. o.O but if its real " love" then people will wait ya know ? :)

[JayJaySpiritus]

Love has no bounderies... and age is just a number. Who`s to say that your not old enough to be with him? If you really like each other then it wont matter. You no what you feel inside. Dont let people tell you otherwise. Theres always someone out there that is gonna tell you what you do, how you act and how you think is wrong.... But you do need to be carefull. Your gonna get hurt more than he will if you break up...

this is some of the best advice... follow your instincts... who cares what others think.. its about you & them Not you, them & the world.

[judahtics]

way too old! someone that old has no business with someone that young.

[Maxxie]

It think it's wrong.... a 21 year old is far more emotionally (not to mention physically) developed than an adolescent. That being said, anything above the age of consent is fine with me, save for if it's too far apart (on the number of 15+ years).

Age is just a number. Yeah? Prison is just a room.

[Dawson]

I think its ok as long as there both over 18 its there choice.