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Dack
July 25th, 2011, 10:11 AM
I fucked up.

I fucked it up with my girlfriend, Sarah. I told her ex, who was my best friend, that shed cheated on him. He went batshit, and told everyone. She's now so self-destructive it hurts ms to listen to it. "Why would you want to trust Sarah? She's a two faced cheating whore.",'she says. I'm at wits end about this; I don't know what else to do to make this right. Don't say "you should drop the bitch, she cheated", that's not an option and I'm not hurting her any further.

Kaius
July 25th, 2011, 10:25 AM
Well, to be honest it kinda is your own fault, what happened between the two of them doesn't really have anything to do with you and the fact you've openly exposed a private situation that should've been up to her to tell him, its going to hurt her. You need to earn your trust back with her, its not only her thats broken trust here she must have told you that in the strictest of confidence. Talk to her about it and find out what she wants before you do anything. I hope this helps.

Dack
July 25th, 2011, 10:46 AM
I'm not tryin to oppose what you say, and I understand what your saying.

I didn't just spontaneously tell him; he'd wanted to get back together with her because he didn't know of our relationship, as much as I'd like to help him with his girl problems...it's hard to do that if the relationship he's having trouble with is with the girl I'm with. He'd
Also asked if id knew why they broke up and as much as i knew shed be angry with me, I had to tell him. I knew it'd Break his heart but I didn't know he'd tell everyone and ruin her life out of jealous heartbreak. I also knew it would hurt her but I didn't know hed go out of his way to make her life miserable. In not going to justeave her because then I'm just like all the others who have a change of heart from a little something they heard from a jealous asshole.

Kaius
July 25th, 2011, 10:57 AM
Ah, well thats fair enough, but at the same time I think you need to explain this to Sarah and let her know you didn't do it out of spite.