Help?

[screamtobeheard]

Alright, so I go out with this guy, and we've been dating for about a month and a half. And I like this guy a lot. I actually think I love him. But here's the thing. I love being single. Like, I like the freedom of being single. I can do what I want. I have no obligations to see anyone. No one really cares what I do. I can flirt all I want. I can hang out with my friends and not have to worry about blowing off my boyfriend. I mean, I really do love him. And I really do love being with him and around him. But sometimes, I just wish I was single. And it's also kinda hard for me to see...I don't know, a future with him. I don't see my self being with him forever. I don't know. Relationships freak me out a bit. Is this weird? Does anyone have any advice along these lines?

[Kaius]

If you've been single for a long time its going to take a lot of getting used to to be with someone. Which do you feel more heavily about? Staying single or being with this guy? It might help if you talk to him a little bit about it, cause if he figures out you're going a bit cold on him because you're unsure what you want its not only going to hurt him but it might put him off a little bit. Its going to be difficult getting used to the lack of freedom you've got now and you've just got to sort out your head a little bit, try planning, plan the week in advance if you can. Spread it equally between him, your own personal time and time with your friends and family.