The Joker
July 25th, 2011, 03:10 AM
So, there's a girl I'm interested in. She seems to genuinely like me and find me at least moderately attractive, but I haven't seen her since school ended (I believe it was the 25th of June). I am really interested in her, but I want to see her a few times over the Summer to make sure that we have chemistry. Now, there's something I don't get. Whenever I try and make plans with her, she doesn't really respond for a long time (or at all). Once, she said she was going to a wedding, then I saw a post on her blog saying that she probably wasn't doing anything on that day. That post had been made several hours and maybe she thought the wedding was irrelevant, but it had me wondering. This would make most people assume that the girl is not interested/doesn't want me, but there are a few things that have me confused.
She seems really eager to tell me about her life. We've had several long conversations about our lives, and problems and such. She really seems to like me and these are things you wouldn't tell to someone you don't really care about at all. Also, she sent me a message with my name in all caps...she kinda implied that she urgently wanted to hang out with me and a few other people. She sent it on the 20th, I've replied since then (twice) and she hasn't replied to me at all. Kind of makes me confused because it seemed like she wanted to hang out with me really soon. She definitely likes me and definitely thinks I'm attractive but it seems like she's kinda blowing me off, I'm not sure.
This is what I hate about the internet and social networking sites. I've never sure if I'm reading too far into things and taking things more seriously than I should.
Help? Anyone know why she might be blowing me off?
She seems really eager to tell me about her life. We've had several long conversations about our lives, and problems and such. She really seems to like me and these are things you wouldn't tell to someone you don't really care about at all. Also, she sent me a message with my name in all caps...she kinda implied that she urgently wanted to hang out with me and a few other people. She sent it on the 20th, I've replied since then (twice) and she hasn't replied to me at all. Kind of makes me confused because it seemed like she wanted to hang out with me really soon. She definitely likes me and definitely thinks I'm attractive but it seems like she's kinda blowing me off, I'm not sure.
This is what I hate about the internet and social networking sites. I've never sure if I'm reading too far into things and taking things more seriously than I should.
Help? Anyone know why she might be blowing me off?