im very depressed

[Nathan13]

I never usually get depressed but this one thing is getting on my nerves and i feel like crying

Im shy and as some may know i have a hard time making friends my age and ive never had a best freind i have younger friends but i cant say "yeah this 11 yr old is my best friend"
So im getting angry at myself for not having a best friend and i get jelous when i see my cousin and her best friend talking and when they are sad making each other feel better no one makes me feel better, i cant share my deepest thoughts or anything so im so annoyed

[TheMatrix]

Try looking for a trait in people that you like.
What kinds of people do you enjoy being around?
Computer-nerds? I'm one :D
Helpful people? Take a look in the "Help and Advice" forums
etc.

Although we may only be teens on the internet, you can use us as "Sample people". Meaning, you look at the traits of people here. Then you go into the real world and look for those kind of people. You're bound to find someone ;)

[Nathan13]

i have alot of friends but they are not best friends ive actually had one best friend i remeber when i was 9 but now all my own age friends make fun of me every once in a while and all of my younger friends have best friends and people might think its wierd and i cant go to clubs or something becuase im shy


And i have best friends online but its not the same.



Becuase i need a friend who is like me but all the people/friends i know/have either arent like me or they hide it so i wont know

[TheMatrix]

i have alot of friends but they are not best friends ive actually had one best friend i remeber when i was 9 but now all my own age friends make fun of me every once in a while and all of my younger friends have best friends and people might think its wierd and i cant go to clubs or something becuase im shy
How old are you, if I may ask?

And i have best friends online but its not the same.
If you live close enough and you know each other well, then you could arrange a meeting at the local Tescos or something, right? That is, if you wanted to.

[Nathan13]

I am 14 and my best friend online is 11 though -.-


As ive said in previous threads: older people are just.. not good lol.

[TheMatrix]

Well then that's fine and dandy too!
Don't worry, maybe someday you'll find somebody who you can relate to.

As for now, I wish you the best of luck. Cheers!

[Nathan13]

Well then that's fine and dandy too!
Don't worry, maybe someday you'll find somebody who you can relate to.

As for now, I wish you the best of luck. Cheers!

Thanks but "maybe someday" might be when im like 25 and then i cant play ds games or jump on trampolines :(

[Kujiro]

Besties, it's never easy to find a friend, a true one whom would share joy and pain with you, truthfully and unconditionally.

The true friends are friends who skewer on your bad points and rub it so hard that you improve on them.

They are the ones that standby you at your darkest times, but in turn we neglect their feelings.

It's tough to find a friend, I was once told that to be able to find 1 true friend in your life you are considered a happy and lucky person.

Take your time in finding your bestie, open up yourself to people, sometimes the answers can be found in the most unexpected places among most unexpected people.

[Nathan13]

Besties, it's never easy to find a friend, a true one whom would share joy and pain with you, truthfully and unconditionally.

The true friends are friends who skewer on your bad points and rub it so hard that you improve on them.

They are the ones that standby you at your darkest times, but in turn we neglect their feelings.

It's tough to find a friend, I was once told that to be able to find 1 true friend in your life you are considered a happy and lucky person.

Take your time in finding your bestie, open up yourself to people, sometimes the answers can be found in the most unexpected places among most unexpected people.

Thanks