I've only ever wanted girlfriends in the past, but right now I want a boyfriend

[LKIFMRUG9556]

I've only ever wanted girlfriends in the past and I've fancied loads of girls. But there this boy I have crush on and I happily go out with him. But not forever cause I want a wife and kids. But the thing is I've never been able to see myself with a boy before and this boy I like is the only boyfriend I think I'm ever going to want regardless of whether or not we end up splitting up if we do go out.

Is it possible to be bisexual and just have the leaning for one person of the same sex only in ones entire life.

(I don't want to tell the world I Bi (if I am) but it's not because I'm ashamed, it's just because it's not conventional.)

[nameless12]

i think that if its just one guy, maybe its just curiousity. but still, it dosent matter wichever sexuality you are, just enjoy life :)

[AltoVaughn]

IMHO, Fuck being conventional. If your like/love the guy then you do. Don't worry about what it makes you.

[Kujiro]

I think it is unfair to decide your sexuality based on a single incident, people are born to love both genders.
It should be an experimental phase for you, and it likely be a one off incident.

I agree that it's not conventional to admit certain categories of sexuality, but it does not mean to deny if be so.

Hence I believe there's not a need to worry about where you fall in at this point of time.
Experiment at your own pace and the results will naturally be clearer as time flows by.

Good luck

[prob1996]

Same sex attraction is normal for this age. It could merely be curiousity and experimentation. Don't worry aobut labels. Society is so fixated on them. Love who you want to love. If right now that is a boy and you are curious, you should be able to explore those feelings guilt free. If later on you love a girl and want to get married, you should be able to do that too.