Half sister!

[ausy94]

Ok so me and my dad are driving down the road today and having a good conversation. The all of a sudden he says exactly this "hey by the way you have a half sister who's 21 I haven't seen her since she was four. Would you like to come with me to meet her?" Of couse I said yes. The real problem is my parents are divorced so my mom and two brothers have no idea we have a sister. So now I ask should I tell them or should I let him tell him(which may never happen) or should I just tell my mom and let her decide? I am so confused. Would like to also add I am 17 he has never even hinted about this once.i

[Ambrosia]

Whether they know is up to your father. It is not your place to pry into this, just go with him to meet her if you truly want to. Since they are divorced at this time I don't recommend throwing any salt into the wounds. Your siblings may be too young for your fathers liking and he doesn't want them knowing and you do not want to hurt your mother any more than she may already be.

[sydneyboy16]

Hey Man. Look I think you should talk to your dad about telling other people before you do.. go meet her.... and ask him if he is considering telling anyone... If u have no problem with u being the only one knowing, then it's ok. But if you want otera to know, then try and talk to your dad, et him to see tour aide of the story - haw a discussion about it maybe if it ain't too awkward..... anyway hope this helps :)

- XAV FROM SYD