What do you think?

[Discomposure]

Okay, soo...
I hate posts that are like I think I might be gay help me, and I wouldn't usually post something like this but I reallllly am confused!
I've grown close to a girl I know, and i'd pretty much say she's my 'best friend', I love everything about her, she makes me so happy! Anyway, recently I can't get her off my mind, i'm constantly thinking about her. She's the only person I want to talk to, I always want to spend time with her, I love been with her. I keep getting very jealous when she spends time with other people, especially her boyfriend!
Now, this is the part im very confused at, she tells me that I mean so much to her and she has never felt the way she feels about me about anyone else (if that makes sense). We always cuddle, and she jokes all the time that im a lesbian and fancy her, but i'm not I don't think. Anyway, a few weeks ago whilst cuddling her we kissed, just a quick kiss. Then the next time we were together we kissed again but a 'proper kiss'. I got butterflies, I honestly did i've never had feeelings like this before! Now when we are together alone, we always kiss, it feels normal. The other night, (not wanting to go into lots of detail) but we were in bed, and she put her hand on my tummy and stroked along my waistline. I did it back, and that was it. We just carried on kissing and cuddling.
What is this? Am I just being stupid thinking I like her more as a friend, because it's not what 'friends' do?
If you could let me know what you think of this, i'd be greatful. Thanks!

[Mynameisconner]

It seems to me that there are mutual feelings, but talking it over with her might be the easiest way to find that out for sure.

[Schizothemia]

It seems to me that there are mutual feelings, but talking it over with her might be the easiest way to find that out for sure.

This.

Instead of wondering so much about it yourself. Discuss it with her, see what she's thinking and be open with her about how you feel. With what's happening its easy to see there are mutual feelings but one of the great things about being human is our ability to communicate! So talk to her, see her side of it, see if she's just having fun or if she does share feelings for you as well!

[humanesquire]

It seems to me that she wants you to be an experiment for her. I mean, to see how she feels about girls in that sense. If you're really worried, you might want to bring up her boyfriend next time you cuddle

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

It seems to me that there are mutual feelings, but talking it over with her might be the easiest way to find that out for sure.

I always promote talking. Why try to assume. I know that talking about some of these issues is hard and sometimes embarrassing, but it does get the subject out in the open and if you two are truly friends it should not be insulting or nasty just a chat and then you will know for sure. Good Luck

[Discomposure]

Thanks for the replys, I feel abit daft saying all this, like im being over dramatic and stuff but she really is all i can think about!
I think I will talk to her, but im not entirely sure how to bring it up or what to say because alot of the time she'll joke about things if they are mentioned... As if she doesn't want to talk about it. I don't want her to think im obsessively inlove with her or anything like that either so I don't know what to say because I don't want to put her off spending time with me if she really doesn't feel this way and I tell her I do!
Again, thanks everyone :)

[Kujiro]

Yes, your friendship has transended deeper into a form of love, and it is causing you to be very possessive over her, even to her boyfriend

Somewhere inside you dont like the idea of sharing her with anyone else, and in fact extremely insecure over this friendship, somehow these actions you did was more of a form of self assurance to tell yourself she still feels for you. And you are still her number 1 in her life.

You are totally afraid of losing her, it may even turn to an obsession to start getting very sensitive over her texting and who shes talking to, The places she goes, you will get totally annoyed if and disappointed if she lied to you just to go out. With someone else.

But above all these, its very hard to put it through to her that you meant in that way, maybe because of gender issues.
But it seems like the best way is to let her know how u feel towards her.
And it is something which is hard to pull through, especially when the struggle is within yourself.

It all brings down to how you intend to put it thru to her.
I know because i have been there..

Best Wishes
Cheers

[Lights]

First of all I would like to say I think you're in a very sweet situation. It sounds as if you've got a real friend there. :)

Now when we are together alone, we always kiss, it feels normal.

You saying this makes my response to this thread very easy to form. I'm not saying that you, or her, are definite lesbians, but when the two of you are as close to each other as you are, it points towards some degree of homosexuality. Experimenting really doesn't mean doing this kind of thing whenever you two are alone together; it's more of a couple of times thing before you're no longer interested.

Amy, I think there's a possible relationship possibility for you here if you take the plunge to have a quiet word with her. Come on, she has a boyfriend, yet she's happy to kiss you, hug you, touch you intimately etc. If she was satisfied with her boyfriend, she wouldn't have any interest in doing things like this. I am almost certain that she will not turn her back on you or feel awkward after you telling her how much you enjoy these actions. After all, she joins in with them! If you tell her that kissing her gave you butterflies, that's the sort of thing that makes that person feel really close to you. You both clearly enjoy your time together, so I think you could both be fitting into the bisexual orientation at the very least. The reason I don't think either of you two are 'curious' is because of the frequency of your activity together,

[steve14]

probabally just bi curious... maybe bi