Friend touched me at sleepover and i woke

[soccerdude4u11]

I was at my friends with other guys from soccer and i woke up and his hand was touching me and was in the hole of my shorts. I pretended to be sleeping but i got hard and i wanted to finish but he didnt. now i feel weird. what should i do

[Donkey]

I'll let this pass as sex-ed as long as we keep to the sexuality (am I gay, what should I say etc.) side of it rather than the story.

[Tristin.]

hmm, i suppose you sound curious, as does your friend. i advise you talk to him about it though, but subtly, i advise his for 2 reasons:
A) its wrong to feel someone up while they are asleep (well, i think it is)
B)you two may be able to experament and feed your curiosity.

just broach the subject carefully.

[tyler17OKC]

I would just find a time when you are alone and tell him that you know what he did, then just tell him that you want to go further.

[soccerdude4u11]

but i dont think he is attractive he is in love with xbox and not good at soccer. I wanted to finish then but now i feel weird and wouldnt let him and i dont want him to know iwoke up because then he will tell

[Jstr]

same thouts as the others but before you woke up doesn't that count as rape

[cdunn]

i think thats a lil wierd if he wants to experiment with you he should first ask not try to fell you up while your sleeping

[soccerdude4u11]

i would have said no but im a way i might like it idk he cummed on my arm it was gross

[michael.95]

Tell him you liked what he was doing and ask if he could finish doing it next time.

[JamHaychUK]

Let him know that you were awake, and tell him how you feel about it either way. Basically what everyone else already said :D.

[death_to_my_heart]

umm i would just say tell him that u were awake and that u want to go a lil further but u knw just dont push him

[Giles]

same thouts as the others but before you woke up doesn't that count as rape

That's not rape, more like sexual assault. But there's no need to get into that.

If you didn't enjoy it and don't want it to happen again and/or experiment with him then simply wait until you can talk to him discreetly and explain to him that you know what he did and don't want him to do it again. If you want to continue and/or go further then just tell him that. Simple as.

[Timmy93]

just act like nothing happened or else he will be very embarassed and who knows it might happen again

[prob1996]

If you didn't enjoy it and don't want it to happen again and/or experiment with him then simply wait until you can talk to him discreetly and explain to him that you know what he did and don't want him to do it again. If you want to continue and/or go further then just tell him that. Simple as.

^^^this is the best advice^^^

I think you need to figure out exactly what you want and how you feel. If you liked it or not, either way is a normal feeling but you do have to talk to him about it. Just find a discreet way and you should be ok.

[VamosToro]

That's a little wierd that he would wait until your "asleep." I mean he couldn't even ask. I would bring it up and if you want to go farther with him that's your decision. But, "Oh no he didn't!":yeah:

[Kujiro]

The reason he wanted to wait for you to fall asleep to touch you would likely be, hes afraid that a direct asking will result in your rejection to him.

He is definately as curious as you are, assuming he is straight.
But you felt weird meaning are u, for or against his actions?

There are 2 ways you may want to approach this, this could be a window for you to further your experimentation and curiousity, you may ask him and talk to him in a more private space.

Or you may also tell him you knew what was happening and you would not want it to happen again...

Dont worry about sexuality for now, curiousity and understanding will lead you to the answer to your sexuality in future.

Cheers and Gd luk

[Rodeo]

If you really wanted him to finish and your afraid to talk to him about it there is a simple way to do this without causing problems. when yo two are together alone play truth or dare or another game simular and when the game is in full swing start turning things that direction eventually you will be touching each other and you will both be awake for the whole thing this time.

[giggles]

talk to him, say u liked it

[Santiago22]

I would talk to him about it.

[Donkey]

Well we're clearly not talking about the OP's sexuality as I warned... :locked: Talking about this kind of thing isn't allowed, i.e. how to ask someone to experiment or similar.