View Full Version : I can't get a girl for my life
nazzac
July 24th, 2011, 06:23 AM
15 years, and i have not been close to getting a girlfriend.I try being myself, but that doesn't work. I talk to girls, and i am alright around them.
I get along with them ,but i suck so bad at getting one. I don't consider myself to be ugly. I don't look or sound like a young child. I am about average in build. So i don't know what is going wrong.
Can you help me at all?
Solvez18
July 24th, 2011, 06:31 AM
i suppose if theres someone you like or something, you can just talk to them a bit then ask them out. don't goto fast and im sure youll be ok
Riotboy
July 24th, 2011, 06:43 AM
same :/ forever alone
nazzac
July 24th, 2011, 06:55 AM
It may be because of what i am into. UFC and Wrestling is not very popular amongst my friends, yet i grew up on wrestling and love mma atm.
Emily_LOVES_MUSIC
August 5th, 2011, 04:22 PM
well, mma is beast (i love mayhem ;-) ) soooo dnt stop liking it jst bc ppl arent that crazy about it where u are. if you are having issues getting a girl, that means the right girl is sumwhere out there, and possibly not infront of u. so dnt forgett who you are and keep trying. thats all i can really say. sorry :-l
Upintheair
August 5th, 2011, 04:53 PM
UFC is epic haha and i agree, you shouldnt change who you are just because other people dont like what you like. Be who you are and be confident in yourself, and im sure girls will be happy to go out with you!
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind" I dont know who said it but I tell myself that everytime I feel down!
Andelicious
August 5th, 2011, 05:30 PM
Don't worry about it so much, you're only 15 haha People take relationships way too seriously in high school. Relationships aren't the kind of thing you should go out looking for, if it happens it happens.
ExhibitG
August 5th, 2011, 07:38 PM
Don't worry about it so much, you're only 15 haha People take relationships way too seriously in high school. Relationships aren't the kind of thing you should go out looking for, if it happens it happens.
i love this response. i used to think i HAD to have a girlfriend or else people would make fun of me (which some did for a little bit). i finally got one when i was fifteen and it was nice but it absolutely wasn't worth all the hassle. haven't had one since.
desti_cakes
August 7th, 2011, 08:24 PM
i'm not going to say some crap like "ohh be yourself and you'll find the perfect girl" but i will say don't be desperate and don't be pushy and one more don't be tense loosen up. I looove it when guys ask me out and have a nice confidence and are kinda cocky. Its cute, try it and you will most probably get some good results!
Nihilus
August 7th, 2011, 08:45 PM
Dude, I'm 17 and have never had a girlfriend. It's normal....
Charlotte93
August 7th, 2011, 09:49 PM
If u were here the girls would be all over u
Jakezilla
August 7th, 2011, 09:52 PM
same here :/ I wish someone would just ask ME out. blehh
canyon
August 7th, 2011, 10:28 PM
Do you try to ask them out, or are you always waiting for a girl to ask you? You say you talk to girls and everything, but do you yourself try to take it further or always wait for the girl to ask? Because if you're always waiting, girls will get tired of waiting for you to ask them and move on
Jonathan M
August 8th, 2011, 02:23 AM
dont change just because of some people around you :P Its hard right now(I know from personal experience) but like everyone else says she's somewhere out there
judahtics
August 8th, 2011, 02:49 AM
don't worry about it. girls are crazy emotional and cost money lol.
nazzac
August 8th, 2011, 08:59 AM
Nah, i'm not planning on changing. I have long friends that are girls from as far back as i see, but when we meet up (my mates are there too) They hug them, but not me, even though i have know them a lot more, and known them for a long time. Stuff like that makes me think i suck.
I'm not desperate or anything, but i'd like to know why.
dents
August 8th, 2011, 02:00 PM
I'm in the same boat, I ask my female friend out, and she says that she likes us as friends. I somehow become that good friend but not that boyfriend material type of guy.
Rebelion
August 8th, 2011, 03:14 PM
Same here:yes:
bigdaddy101
August 8th, 2011, 05:07 PM
same here(unfortunately)
Little Boy Big Toy
August 16th, 2011, 12:52 AM
flirt with every girl you see. thats what i do. even if they arent super hot
senior.2013
August 16th, 2011, 05:56 AM
I cant get a girl either ... It'd be easier if they made the first move.
But dont worry, I always say they dont know what their missing.
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