ok if your boss makes out withu? my friend said illegal

[bethany2shop]

If you like him? we kiss and he touched under my skirt. :wub::wub: but it feels wrong because my friend said its illegal. but was my fault i sat on his leg after we started kissing me.

[Schizothemia]

This is considered sexual harrassment. If it goes any further it becomes rape. (It might be considered statutory even now that he has touched you where you said he did.)

Please keep in mind, even if you are consenting, that if your manager is 18 or older (as I suspect him to be) it is illegal and considered rape, more specifically statutory.

Also, a lot of companies view this as means for firing individuals. These companies prefer that their workers aren't shacking up. Almost all of the places I've worked, co- worker relationships of this persuasion were frowned upon by the company.

[bethany2shop]

This is considered sexual harrassment. If it goes any further it becomes rape. (It might be considered statutory even now that he has touched you where you said he did.)

Please keep in mind, even if you are consenting, that if your manager is 18 or older (as I suspect him to be) it is illegal and considered rape, more specifically statutory.

Also, a lot of companies view this as means for firing individuals. These companies prefer that their workers aren't shacking up. Almost all of the places I've worked, co- worker relationships of this persuasion were frowned upon by the company.

That seems unfair as i like him and flirted a lot with my top. OK ill stop being close to him :mad:

[Schizothemia]

While being "unfair" it is the law. You have to remember, to the American government, you are still considered a kid and even if you think you are mentally aged enough to handle it, you have to wait until the legal age of consent to date someone 18 or older. Besides, it's best you wait. Give yourself some time to discover yourself.

[bethany2shop]

While being "unfair" it is the law. You have to remember, to the American government, you are still considered a kid and even if you think you are mentally aged enough to handle it, you have to wait until the legal age of consent to date someone 18 or older. Besides, it's best you wait. Give yourself some time to discover yourself.

ok then cool :rolleyes:
[Edited out - inappropraite and not needed.~georgiamay]
my exbf touched my panties a lot but not as nice :( actually i was ticklish when exbf touched.

[louisgray]

How old is your boss?

[TtotheC]

Well it's not considered rape as the dude above me said, but it is indeed against the law and seen as sexual harrassment. You're just not legal yet, sucks huh? :P Im sure you like it, but if u dont wanna get him in trouble i'd stop doing what you're doing till you're at least 18 years old hehe.

[Kujiro]

I feel that, its the perspective and which direction your boss is coming from that matters.
If that is the case, does it mean that a superior and a subordinate will never be allowed to go into a loving relationship?

On reverse a make out is done, and can only be achieved if there are 2 willing parties.
So if you do not like your boss, are you doing it for a different agenda?

There are many perspectives to view this matter, and the only person whom is able to judge the right from the wrong are the people involved.

People looking at a vantage point of view like your friend and myself, will never beable to catch the clearest picture.

But at any point if you feel that you are obligated to do certain acts to keep your job, then that job was never meant for you from the start.

[Harley Quinn]

If you like him? we kiss and he touched under my skirt. :wub::wub: but it feels wrong because my friend said its illegal. but was my fault i sat on his leg after we started kissing me.

Your 15. If he's your boss, that makes him over 18. If you were 16 it wouldn't be illegal (at least in the UK, not sure about anywhere else.) It doesn't matter if it was your fault because you sat on his leg, he should have pushed you off. You're both in the wrong, but if you're caught he is the one that's going to be charged with indecency. You need to stop the games you're playing, grow up and realise what is right and what is wrong.

That seems unfair as i like him and flirted a lot with my top. OK ill stop being close to him :mad:

Don't be pissed at him when he's only answering your question. If you didn't like what he said, why post the question.

[bethany2shop]

How old is your boss?

24.

Well it's not considered rape as the dude above me said, but it is indeed against the law and seen as sexual harrassment. You're just not legal yet, sucks huh? :P Im sure you like it, but if u dont wanna get him in trouble i'd stop doing what you're doing till you're at least 18 years old hehe.

[Edited out - inappropriate and not needed.~georgiamay]yep 18 in 3 years so maybe i could wait.

I feel that, its the perspective and which direction your boss is coming from that matters.
If that is the case, does it mean that a superior and a subordinate will never be allowed to go into a loving relationship?

On reverse a make out is done, and can only be achieved if there are 2 willing parties.
So if you do not like your boss, are you doing it for a different agenda?

There are many perspectives to view this matter, and the only person whom is able to judge the right from the wrong are the people involved.

People looking at a vantage point of view like your friend and myself, will never beable to catch the clearest picture.

But at any point if you feel that you are obligated to do certain acts to keep your job, then that job was never meant for you from the start.

lol thats a long reason, well for sure i dont want a raise or anything just some kisses :yes:

Your 15. If he's your boss, that makes him over 18. If you were 16 it wouldn't be illegal (at least in the UK, not sure about anywhere else.) It doesn't matter if it was your fault because you sat on his leg, he should have pushed you off. You're both in the wrong, but if you're caught he is the one that's going to be charged with indecency. You need to stop the games you're playing, grow up and realise what is right and what is wrong.



Don't be pissed at him when he's only answering your question. If you didn't like what he said, why post the question.

ok i will stop but nobody can stop me from being happy when i see him at least. lol im not pi**ed at anyone.

[Lights]

You're both in the wrong, but if you're caught he is the one that's going to be charged with indecency.

I was going to mention exactly what's been said above. Because he's the older one, he's the one that's held reliable for everything. No matter if you enjoy the attention or not, it's considered sexual harassment on his part. You won't suffer any of consequences that could result from all of this, but he will. It's entirely unprofessional of him to be doing anything with you in the first place because of your age, so I don't know what the hell he thinks he's getting involved with.

Wow, I just read you saying he's 24. Shame on him.

[bethany2shop]

I was going to mention exactly what's been said above. Because he's the older one, he's the one that's held reliable for everything. No matter if you enjoy the attention or not, it's considered sexual harassment on his part. You won't suffer any of consequences that could result from all of this, but he will. It's entirely unprofessional of him to be doing anything with you in the first place because of your age, so I don't know what the hell he thinks he's getting involved with.

Wow, I just read you saying he's 24. Shame on him.

He talks to me online and he said he trusts me not to tell. Its ok i won't sit on him again or at least till 18. Its kind of horny just being close to me/him so its fun anyway:)
everybody would agree if you met him:)

[PervertedStalker]

ya, i agree with everyone else. if you really like him as much as you say you wouldnt keep doing sh** with him. the more you do the more trouble he could get in. trust me, im 15 as well and i like a guy who just turned 18. we dated b4 that but wen it became illegal i didnt want to risk him getting in trouble. hope u get it straight! =D

[LuckyLuke]

A person who's in a position of power isn't allowed to have sexual relations with the person they're in charge of unless that was the situation prior to he/she coming into power (in most states). And since you're a minor, the charge is much more significant. Get out now.

[Hope4u]

not at all okay...and illegal as everyone has said..if not simple harrassment...doesn't matter if you "like it"..it's wrong.

[steel]

You're a minor. If your boss has sexual contact with you he could get in a load of trouble if law enforcement finds out. Some states are very strict & he will do jail time & be a registered sex offender for life. Stop now before it gets out of hand & you shouldnt be messing with your employer....period.

[bethany2shop]

I just like being in the same room as him so thats good enough even without hugging. No problum :)

[Emily_LOVES_MUSIC]

hey ok here is the thing, i completely agree with you on this. every1 that is saying its illegal, ya they are right. but they have to understand this one detail; AGE IS BUT A NUMBER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you can be 25 and act like a 15 year old. i dated a guy that was 17. i was 10. big whoop. who cares? a true test of how old you are is how mature you are. i knew how to drive at 7 years old and have driven at that age too. my cousins said that i should become a nascar driver because of it. does it really matter how old some1 is if you have feelings for them? now i have a question for every1 that comments:
if you were in this possition and you loved the person you are dating, and you would do anything for them. would you still be telling angel what you are? if you love some1 and couldnt be without them or you have strong feelings for this person, who cares what other people think? would you? i highly doubt it.

now i will admit, if the two of you get caught, ya he will go to jail. but that doesnt mean you have to stop dating him.
its only illegal if he touches you sexualy. look at selena gomez and justin bieber. im pretty sure the minor vs adult age is 18 in the U.S. but im not posotive. Selena is 19, justin is 17. now do you hear anything about the goverment aresting selena? NO! they dont have sex, they just make out. is that a crime? so if i were in your position, i would leave the sexual stuff until you are 18. but that doesnt mean you cant date him. dating does NOT have to involve sex. so you have me on your side. if you want to date him, go ahead. no1 can stop you. you have my complete support. good luck with this whole thing :D

[Medican]

although yes you can date him but do your parents know about all this? if they don't maybe the law can't stop you two from dating but i bet your parents can do something about it.

[bethany2shop]

hey ok here is the thing, i completely agree with you on this. every1 that is saying its illegal, ya they are right. but they have to understand this one detail; AGE IS BUT A NUMBER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you can be 25 and act like a 15 year old. i dated a guy that was 17. i was 10. big whoop. who cares? a true test of how old you are is how mature you are. i knew how to drive at 7 years old and have driven at that age too. my cousins said that i should become a nascar driver because of it. does it really matter how old some1 is if you have feelings for them? now i have a question for every1 that comments:
if you were in this possition and you loved the person you are dating, and you would do anything for them. would you still be telling angel what you are? if you love some1 and couldnt be without them or you have strong feelings for this person, who cares what other people think? would you? i highly doubt it.

now i will admit, if the two of you get caught, ya he will go to jail. but that doesnt mean you have to stop dating him.
its only illegal if he touches you sexualy. look at selena gomez and justin bieber. im pretty sure the minor vs adult age is 18 in the U.S. but im not posotive. Selena is 19, justin is 17. now do you hear anything about the goverment aresting selena? NO! they dont have sex, they just make out. is that a crime? so if i were in your position, i would leave the sexual stuff until you are 18. but that doesnt mean you cant date him. dating does NOT have to involve sex. so you have me on your side. if you want to date him, go ahead. no1 can stop you. you have my complete support. good luck with this whole thing :D

thanx! that makes me feel good :):):)
we are not sexuel but i do not wear underwear when i see him (but he does not know anyways)

although yes you can date him but do your parents know about all this? if they don't maybe the law can't stop you two from dating but i bet your parents can do something about it.

no but my mom said i was in love with some1 cos she could tell.

[steel]

we are not sexuel but i do not wear underwear when i see him (but he does not know anyways)

Whats the reason for you not wearing underwear when you see him ? Your parents can stop you from seeing him. Until you're 18 they "own" you. Thats just the way it is.