View Full Version : How to make amends
itswhatever_yep
February 25th, 2007, 01:35 AM
I had this friend for about 3 years and we were best friends and i really loved hanging out with her we pretty much spent the whole summer together. The problem is she moved and started a new school she didnt move far only about 15 minutes from me and we started drifting. Not to mention her father said we werent aloud to talk because i had a problem with her brothers girlfriend. Then she and her boyfriend broke up and i seen her with another guy and they were getting liqour and she said "oh i'm going to suck his dick and if my dad doesnt pick me up at his house we're going to have sex" i think she was joking but i told my boyfriend who went and told her ex. My friend and him were dating for over a year and when they broke up always got back together so he told her and she got mad at me for telling and we got in a fight and i said things that ended our friendship. That was about 2 months ago and now im relizing i really do want to be her friend and i miss her but i've done some things and said things that made her pretty much hate me and I dont know what to do. I want to be friends but my minds telling me to just forget about her. I'm not the kind of person to apologize and im not very good at it either. What should i do. PLEASE HELP:(
ScotsGirl
February 27th, 2007, 09:08 PM
Im not really sure i understand all of your story...but i think i got enough...
if youve done something wrong...then...you should apologise.
Be honest with her (and yourself) about why you did whatever you did.
Hopefully you guys can work through this
Goodluck!
xxxx
Jamz
February 28th, 2007, 08:40 PM
Yea its rather hard to give advice when you have so many typos, first off you used the wrong pronoun for atleast 5 nouns.. "her and she" used as a compound subject is incorrect.
Fix the typos/grammar problems plz!
Link3737
March 14th, 2007, 07:57 PM
lol who gives a rats ass about grammar? anyways, you should just apologize if you miss her THAT much. I mean, if i screwed over a friendship with my best friend i'd apologize the day later! but be totally honest with that girl cause..man..words can easily destroy a friendship but it takes true words to heal one!
Everglow
March 14th, 2007, 08:01 PM
i know exactly how you feel. i had some friendship difficulties earlier this year, but i have rectified those damaged relationships. it's a long process that takes time. i would be more than happy to share with you suggestions on how to make amends with your friends. PM me and I'll get back to you.
gotta run...
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