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azulon3948
July 23rd, 2011, 02:41 PM
Well im 14 and looking and women's parts don't turn me on as fast as they used to but when i see dicks I get hard faster so i thought i was gay then i tried watching gay porn and the boner i got from seeing the dicks went away really fast. Im confused.

Harley Quinn
July 23rd, 2011, 02:52 PM
You're 14, you don't need to label yourself. Porn won't always turn you on and give you a boner. There's nothing to be confused about, just give it a few years and see how that goes. You may find things will change drastically, only time will tell.

blackout123123
July 23rd, 2011, 02:53 PM
You are most likely just curious right now. Don't just force yourself to be gay, it isn't something you choose. I wouldn't overthink this, it happens to many.

grstl
July 23rd, 2011, 02:53 PM
Like most guys on here, you will probably waver back and forth for a few years. Don't sweat your sexuality. Just safely enjoy exploring it until you arrive. I'm a gay who thought he could be straight then ended up decidedly gay. It can work both ways depending on who you are.

nameless12
July 23rd, 2011, 04:23 PM
naaa dont worry about it now, just wait some time and maybe you will know what you like better. this always happens from time to time.

Kujiro
July 24th, 2011, 12:13 AM
Its perhaps you are just bored of women's parts for a while, after watching them for quite a bit last time, it has become something too predictable.

Yes i would say you are curious, rather than gay.
Switching to a different genre of porn, could be something more thrilling for you. But it does not indicate a switch in your sexuality.

You are more shocked that you took a reaction to gay porn rather then straight ones, but its all part of growing up and the curiousity that comes with it. We all go through similar confusions like you are going through now.

Take it eazy.
* Smiles *

Unlucky_Leprechaun
July 24th, 2011, 10:14 PM
It's too early on in puberty to worry about it... just go with the flow dude. Most guys it takes time to figure it all out and even then, once you"think" you got it figured..a curve is thrown at you.. sit back and don't worry.
The labels that society want to put on people have forced some of us to not think out the box. You will ultimately figure it all out and it is for YOU... do what makes YOU happy.. the rest will fall into place.