Cannot trust anyone

[Hershey's Kisses]

:mad::mad: Right now, i really don't trust anyone. Everyone I thought liked me or was my friend rejected me and treated me like garbage. I'm afraid of being rejected. The one person I thought was my friend just proved me wrong. People say, "you'll find someone you have things mutual with. Nope. Everyone treated me poorly. I just don't know what to do.

[Ambrosia]

Take a deep breath and calm down. You WILL find friends, at some point. Or at least people to call acquaintances. Being young is hard and some people just don't make it very easy, especially other young people. Eventually you will come across other people with some what similar interests, or minds like yours, and you will hit it off.

You can't force friendships, and you can't panic when you find yourself at a loss. You have to remind yourself that it will get better, and you are not at the bottom. Don't let it get to you!

[Allbutanillusion]

In someway I agree with LoveLikeWinter. You can't force friendships,sometimes may you feel like you wish you could but you can. And one thing that I have learned, and I am not saying that this is absolute truth, but based on my experience, people are always going to disappoint you in someway. Also people can be very odd at times, I have had experiences similar to yours. You are not alone. It does hurt/is upsetting when people betray you, or people who you thought were your friends turn out not to be.

But, all you really can do is move on, and rather than focus on what was, focus on what will be.

[WonderTastic]

hershey when i read that i burst into tears caus i feel the same no one texts me back my "friends" dont add me im just like fudge them and keep it going you dont need no one but your self and family and sometimes not even family i say stick to god

[xdancing_for_rainx]

I'm not sure that I have anything helpful to say... but I can really relate right now :/ There's someone I kinda let myself trust, and he's drifting away now- just like everybody else.

All I can really say is, hang in there<3 It's really, really tough I know. Maybe it doesn't feel like it right now, but, I'm sure you'll find someone who will TRULY be a friend to you. Not just somebody who's gonna leave like in your past experiences.

[JaredIsStupid]

just shout at them

[Kujiro]

Firstly, youve got to relax.
I know how it feels to be turned around by the one you trusted the most.

But would just like to do alittle fact finding before advising, when you mentioned they treated you like garbage, and the friend you felt that you could trust proved you wrong.
What exactly do you mean?

What did they do wrong?
There are many perspectives and different points of views when we say someone is wrong.
Would you care to elaborate further?

I understand that you are angry, but many times we should look past differences, and resolve them on a friendship level.
Forgiving is always the key to happiness, but like ive mention, we can only decide if thats the best choice after you are able elaborate what actually happened.

Take Care
*smile*

[mxiii]

well, life's like this :(
it hurts the most when the fellow you trust most turns out differently.