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Gauge
July 22nd, 2011, 06:11 PM
So I'm 15, and bi. But I got a question. I'm attracted to girls emotionally but I'm attracted to guys sexually. A girls body doesn't interest me most of time maybe because all the parts of a woman look identical to every other woman out there. But a penis excites me and turns me on. But being around a girl I like gets my heart beating faster and I get nervous. I would really like to have a girlfriend but I can't see myself with a boyfriend.

Is this normal?

LKIFMRUG9556
July 22nd, 2011, 06:16 PM
: ) .......you. are. n.o.r.m.a.l ; )

Gauge
July 22nd, 2011, 06:28 PM
Ahh okay jw.

How about other people. Are any of you guys like this?

LKIFMRUG9556
July 22nd, 2011, 06:34 PM
Well, I find girls attractive emotionally, physically to kind of. But when I see guys cocks in porn etc. I get a twingey, tingle in my cock...its hard to explain:/ I dunno, I think im just curious. Pm me if you need.

Dylan Tyde
July 22nd, 2011, 06:46 PM
i'm almost exactly the same. ive always thought of doin stuff with a friend as just playin about, not as "romantic". at least for me.

michael.95
July 22nd, 2011, 06:51 PM
Totally normal dude. All your hormones are running around crazy in your body, just be open to whatever you feel like until you know truly what you want.

Gauge
July 22nd, 2011, 10:09 PM
Well, I find girls attractive emotionally, physically to kind of. But when I see guys cocks in porn etc. I get a twingey, tingle in my cock...its hard to explain:/ I dunno, I think im just curious. Pm me if you need.
Hah, exactly how I feel. Dicks turn me on more then a woman's body heh.

Kujiro
July 22nd, 2011, 10:17 PM
You are more to the curious side. You love women but puzzled and amused by the males anatomy. It's absolutely normal to feel excited over it at our age.

You are likely going in a good direction as far as your emotional direction is concerned.
After sometime everything would be good for you.

Cheers

WonderTastic
July 22nd, 2011, 11:49 PM
Lol I kinda felt the same way LOL I liked them both emotionaly/sexually but for emotions I ran to girls and for sex I ran to the guys LOL but I never had any contact with guys at all LOL.. but even though I feel the same for both of them but guys are kinda winning cause they way they turn me on is so new it's different from when I'm attracted to a girl LOL..
Yet I still can't seem to my self with a guy

Unsolvedmind
July 23rd, 2011, 12:04 AM
Yes it is Perfectly normal I was in the same exact position you are In Right now :D :lol:

Wisconsin
July 23rd, 2011, 01:30 AM
Well, I find girls attractive emotionally, physically to kind of. But when I see guys cocks in porn etc. I get a twingey, tingle in my cock...its hard to explain:/ I dunno, I think im just curious. Pm me if you need.

im exactly like this. but i cant watch les porn. for me thats a turnoff

Donkey
July 23rd, 2011, 04:19 AM
Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality.

I used to feel the same way, then I kind of realised I was hiding a pretty blatant fact from myself that in fact I didn't like girls emotionally that much. But it could be different from you - the hormones settle down more when you're older, so you will be able to make a better decision about your sexuality then.

audiophile5
July 23rd, 2011, 07:11 AM
I'm exactly the same! ;)

BigJ0b
July 23rd, 2011, 01:42 PM
me too, and i dont like it :(

coolguy1996
July 23rd, 2011, 09:33 PM
so i'm 15, and bi. But i got a question. I'm attracted to girls emotionally but i'm attracted to guys sexually. A girls body doesn't interest me most of time maybe because all the parts of a woman look identical to every other woman out there. But a penis excites me and turns me on. But being around a girl i like gets my heart beating faster and i get nervous. I would really like to have a girlfriend but i can't see myself with a boyfriend.

Is this normal?

story of my life

CairAndros
July 24th, 2011, 04:13 PM
As many others have said, I'm the exact same. From what i've read here it seems pretty normal :P

Quite reassuring to know that there are others who feel the same/are in the same position that I am =]

nobodyimportant23
August 11th, 2011, 01:28 AM
I am the same way...girls get me sexual sometimes and I am emotionally attracted to girls and I can always picture myself with a girlfriend...but guys turn me, however I could never picture myself with a guy

Fishes
August 11th, 2011, 08:15 PM
this is the perfect description of me

TheTrevor
August 11th, 2011, 09:43 PM
yeah. im kinda the same way.

ExhibitG
August 11th, 2011, 11:47 PM
So I'm 15, and bi. But I got a question. I'm attracted to girls emotionally but I'm attracted to guys sexually. A girls body doesn't interest me most of time maybe because all the parts of a woman look identical to every other woman out there. But a penis excites me and turns me on. But being around a girl I like gets my heart beating faster and I get nervous. I would really like to have a girlfriend but I can't see myself with a boyfriend.

Is this normal?

I honestly love that you posted this because I'm pretty much the exact same. The only difference is I call myself straight and very curious instead of bi. The reason being is because even though I'm emotionally attracted to girls and sexually attracted to guys, I am sexually attracted to SOME girls, few. Very few. Whereas I'm sexually attracted to a lot more guys, but have absolutely no emotional attraction. And I think both are required in order to label your sexuality.

Rayquaza
August 13th, 2011, 08:17 AM
sounds pretty normal. In a few years or so you'll probably become straight