I feel bad because I prefer to have good looking friends??:/

[LKIFMRUG9556]

I'ma 16 yr old guy and straight, a bit curious really... and when I think of having certain guy mates I'd rather them be good looking than ugly...not because I'm sexually attracted to them, just because it looks better:S I feel bad about thiss, but I don't shun ugly people...I dont really find anyone ugly really!:L

But I feel really shallow...does anyone else care about this???

[Njathind]

It doesnt particularly bother me, usually it the personality that would make or break a friendship for me.

[FcknMarc]

That seems shallow but ALOT of people are like that. Including myself. But my good looking friends have amazing personalities and I think everyone has some sort of beauty

[WonderTastic]

it is very shallow and society dont accpet ugly people [like me] but im not mad at you i try my best not to tsalk to over weight,super werid,ugly,any out there peole.. but in dating a girl beauty isnt first but personality lol

[Giles]

Does sound really shallow but it seems to be the norm for a lot of people now. They don't seem to befriend anyone significantly less attractive than themselves. Then there's the ugly people left that just befriend eachother. I'm in a group of fairly ugly people (I'm one of them) and we get along fine because we don't give a fuck about looks.

[JaredIsStupid]

if they like u u always can be freinds

[mxiii]

there is nothing wrong with choosing your friends.
goodlooking or not its doesnt matter.
i tend to do the same. except i follow my gut on who i wana be friends wit.
as long as the person is not leading u to a heap of trouble it should be fine

[Kujiro]

I have never had such an encounter with my friends, but it does not seem to be a trend to select friends by the looks.
And it should not be the case,
Judging a person by his/her looks seems to be the most retarded, but sadly most people do judge based on looks.

But as far as friendship is concern, im least bothered about it.

"I don't care if you're black, white, straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian, short, tall, fat, skinny, rich or poor. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. Simple as that. - Eminem"

[Nicky97]

I feel really shallow.
Agreed. And you need advice on what to do about it? Come on guy...

[Efflorescence]

Just remember:

Not all that glitters is gold

I know some people who have looks but their attitude and the way they treat people puts me really off. And I know others who are considered to be 'ugly' but their personality rocks.....

It's personality that really counts...mark my words.

[LuckyLuke]

Beauty is slain by the dagger of age but personality feeds on time.

[Jakezilla]

I feel the same way most of the time. This is why I have no friends v.v

[Syvelocin]

I would imagine that you wouldn't be getting the best friends you could with that deal. I think all my friends are beautiful, but if they were only the hottest girls I could find I swear my life would be not even half as good as it would be if I just let the person make an impression by who they are.

But I also don't believe there is such thing as someone who is bad-looking. It's an opinion, and there is always someone who is into a specific look, no matter how few there are.

[ImCoolBeans]

It's a bit shallow, but also normal. You just want to be near the top of the social hierarchy, which makes sense. But I find that if you're more accepting and friendly towards everyone, everyone is a lot more friendly towards you.

[Mike93]

I think it's pretty normal to be like that and most ppl are.. its sad though

[Triste]

That's just terrible. Looks shouldn't decide if a person is worth getting to know or not. That's why so many people are getting all these bad self-esteem issues... I say it shouldn't really matter, because I know some very attractive people who have very ugly personalities.