I'm tired of thinking about her...

[The Madman]

Ok where to begin... ok right.

About 2 - 3 weeks ago I dumped my girlfriend. Reasons:

1. She didn't love me and was gonna dump me

2. She had feelings for another guy ( her ex ) and cheated on me with him.

3. I couldn't stand the arguements anymore.

I'm quite happy being single, happier that I have been for a while but I do miss her and I still think about her more than I should to be honest but I really do not want to anymore, cause whenever I think about her I get upset and its quite annoying me now :( , I still love her but I would never go out with her again cause of all the problems she has caused me.

I keep thinking about her whenever i'm bored and no matter what song I listen to I somehow find a way to relate it to me and her. Yes I still text her every now and then which is alright but it still hurts. All I want is to stop thinking about her.

( BTW I really do not want comments like "Tell her how you feel", cause thats not going to happen since we don't want to be in each others lives anymore" )

[Angel Androgynous]

Meet a new girl, become friends with her, get in a strong bond with her and who knows? Maybe you guys will hit it off and this new girl might take your mind off your ex. I know that it won't be easy, but chin up and move on! It takes strength that I am sure that you have. Good luck. ^_^

[Nat99]

I agree with the person above me, find someone new

[Monster.Mike]

Yeah dude. Needa find another girl. Maybe it will make you ex jealous?!

[The Madman]

I don't want another girlfriend. I would rather i just stopped thinking about her.

[Hope4u]

it happens..even though there were bad times and bad things that happened (the cheating and the arguements) I'm sure there were also good times and that's what makes you think of her..it takes time and it will go away..you will find someone else to think about, don't worry about it.

[Nicky97]

There seems to be a hole in your life, a time when you mind is not occupied with useful thoughts and it drifts back to what once was (inaccurately, probably). Find something else to fill that time. Something constructive, something that benefits you. Yeah, simple advice. But there is no escaping the truth. Fake it until you make it.