someone to love :/ :D

[nameless12]

heeyyy guuyys :D, long time since i dont put something in this page that i love so much cuz it helps me SOOOOO MUUCH!! :yeah: :D anyways.

im making this cuz i want your opinion on something. im going to highschool and its gonna be hard and different and im really scared but the whole point is that, well.... im bi or curious and when school starts i wanna like someone and i want to have a friend or boyfriend i dont know but someone, a guy that i can hug with so much love and maybe hold hands in private places not open, a guy who loves me so much that wraps his arms over me and makes me feel special.
i start to think that it will be more simple than in junior high and i also think that there are lots of people that are bi or curious that they dont seem to be, people who you see and you say "no way, that guy CANT be gay" and turns out he is, but i just wanna know what i should do when school starts or what i shouldn't do and what you think about all this :/ thanx :)

[blackout123123]

I think you should just take your time, don't try to force yourself to like someone. I know exactly how you feel, I've had that feeling for a while now ><. In a way I do think its easier than in jr. high. Most of the time it takes a while to find someone special like that, just be yourself, time makes all things possible.

[nameless12]

I do keep calm, its just that sometimes i really want someone to love and that loves me back. but ill wait... i hope i do find him.
thanx alan, really helpfull :)

[FcknMarc]

I know how you feel (high school junior about to be a senior) like the user above said , don't put all your time into finding a guy trust me. Take 9th grade to focus on school (sounds lame I know), you will be so much happier if you get school done 1st and then social matters later on. I tried to force myself into liking a guy but it didn't workout. (it may for you) but yeah

Have fun and don't stress about that stuff yet (: You'll end up finding somebody perfect for you

[WonderTastic]

nameless i feel the excat way some one to cuddle with or just be you around yea know.... im so afraid that some one might find out and i would died if someone did... its just too much but i do agree with the other though just wait and focus on school lol (i dont like school) but i gotta do it lol

[Kujiro]

The want for companionship be it guy or girl is very common.
According to plato's other half, where man was actually cut into 2, longing to seek their other half.

but according to the story, it was not stated that the other half was male or female.
Thus i believe that everyone is born to love man or woman.
What we see today is generally stereotyped as only a man and a woman can concieve.

So what should you do, a relationship that is build on trust and love is definately not eazy. And everyone is having headaches with them.

A male male relationship has to be more discreet due to culture as well.
Your task will be a tough one, but not totally impossible.

Most importantly you have to open your heart, and sometimes answers can be found in most unexpected places and among most unexpected people.

Cheers

[blackout123123]

The want for companionship be it guy or girl is very common.
According to plato's other half, where man was actually cut into 2, longing to seek their other half.

but according to the story, it was not stated that the other half was male or female.
Thus i believe that everyone is born to love man or woman.
What we see today is generally stereotyped as only a man and a woman can concieve.

So what should you do, a relationship that is build on trust and love is definately not eazy. And everyone is having headaches with them.

A male male relationship has to be more discreet due to culture as well.
Your task will be a tough one, but not totally impossible.

Most importantly you have to open your heart, and sometimes answers can be found in most unexpected places and among most unexpected people.

Cheers

wow, that's really well explained. Couldn't have said it better. =}

[Kujiro]

wow, that's really well explained. Couldn't have said it better. =}

Thanks for the compliment :)
Hope thru this he is able to see some light to which direction hes headed.

[grstl]

I, too, crave a guy who really knows all of me, whom I can kiss, hold, explore and share good times and everything with. Someone discreet who will understand my need to help my prior girlfriend raise our son. It is so much to dream of, or ask of a guy. .......but I keep hoping...waiting for his smile.

[nameless12]

well, thanx every one :) your really helpfull, i really liked all the advice :whoops:

[AltoVaughn]

I don't have any advice, but I feel the same way. I have a friend that I'm really close too, but it's a confusing relationship at the very least. I just try to give love out, and hope to get it back.