Girlfriend help

[Heyhey1919]

I've been dating my gf for 2 months now and we have gone on 3 dates a week about. We talk and we get along fine it's just that when I go to hold her hand she hesitates before taking mine and we haven't kissed yet due to just that. It seems she hesitates before hugging and holding hands and idk why she won't kiss me. And when we txt I always txt her first and I put thoughts into my txts and she puts one word answers like yeah. Lol, no, or just short answers to answer my questions. What's going on? And on facebook she won't change her relationship status. Somebody tell me what's up (preferably a girl) I'm 16 and she just turned 17. But the weird thing is is that she told me she liked me before I told her anything.

I forgot to mention 70% of the time we spend together is with other people ( family friends)

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[LuckyLuke]

Hey Jay,

It's not looking too good.

You need to talk with her, honestly, openly and bluntly FACE TO FACE. You need to see her reaction to your questions and answers and you need to get her response.

I'd highly recommend going for a walk around a rather empty park during a nice bright time of day and at some point during your stroll, preferably midway through, you ask her, "Hey (her name here) what's going on? I'm feeling a bit off about us lately... you seem to hesitate when we hug or hold hands and whenever we text, I'm always texting you first and you never really put much effort into your replies. I'm kind of confused because you told me you liked me, we've been on well over 20 dates but you still haven't changed your relationship status on facebook. I really like you and care about you (her name here) but I'm getting the sense that you don't feel the same way."

Of course, tailor that to your own words and diction and allow it to flow smoothly and honestly from your heartstrings.

Remember, in matters such as these it's almost always best to be upfront and honest rather than dance around a fire praying that it's not going out.

Good luck and best wishes,

Lucky Luke

[chris1997]

this may be the wrong girl for you if you are always with other people n haven't had a kiss for three months i would tell her how u fell the hesatation and don't know if this is gonna work Good luck

[Ben Michael]

Some girls are just not to comfortable with guys.