stopping wet dreams

[afronteboi]

This is sooooo embarrassing, I’m really humiliated to discuss it, thing is even tho I j/o, since I started ejaculating I still get wet dreams. , I tried talking to my mum about it, anyway she didn’t want to hear me out so whatever, and she was pretty upset about me always trowing my stuff in the wash at random hours, well to make a long story short, I kinda hide my cum stained underwear and sheet till I think she’s out then wash them, somehow she found em, before I had a chance to wash em, and she is going nuts right now talking about me being nasty, and a lil sicko, she called my dad, she even called my grandma, Oh Jeese, she’s was on the phone with her sister, I feel so bad does everyone hav tuh know my private issues. What can I do to stop having wet dreams, aside from jacking my cock off, every time I see a family member I’ll feel like they know all my business. I apologise for the really long post.

[MassiveAttack]

That must be tough what your going threw! All I can say is jack off more. But good luck!

[pageplant77]

I don't think that was right what your mom did, she sounds like a gossamer witch to me! No offense. But really? Come on! I mean how can she not expect things like this from you when you're going through puberty? Sorry for the mini rant haha.

But anyways all I can say is jack off more dude.

[Cudder]

I'd be pissed if my mom did that. I wish I could give you a way to prevent it besides j/o. But I can't think of any other ways.

[Harry Potter]

You need to have more sex.

[Kujiro]

You can always try to j/o more, seems like its a known way to stop wet dreaming.
But if that does not seem to work then i guess you would have to let it stop on its own.

When puberty hits a certain level, it would gradually slow down on such event.
Im feel pretty bad that your mum has make this known to everyone, i suggest you should talk to her about your privacy.
She does not seem to get the idea across that you are not the one intentionally causing it.
Give her a piece of your mind but make it firm cant do much but hope it takes a turn for the better.

Good luck

[Chillswil]

what ur mom did was awful the only solution is to jack off more

[MustangRacer35]

If you j/o more, it should help but it won't completely stop wet dreams from happening. However just try to wipe up the mess to try to keep her from noticing it.

[Carna]

Just jack off more. That's really all you can do. It helps if you do it right before bed so you're 'emptied out' i guess. And wouldn't your dad try to explain to her that that happens with wet dreams?

[VamosToro]

Your mom sucks. Why would she go around and say that to everyone? I don't know what I would do if my mom did that. Like Kujiro said I think it will just stop. I mean you don't find grown men having wet dreams all that often.

[Can'tHelpIt]

oh well i jack everyday and i never have them but b4 i got them all the time you could try putting something rubber but not a condom bc your mom sounds like a total bitch and will go balistic if she finds it

[benang]

jack off more

[StoppingTime]

Like most people have said j/o more. And yes, this is just a stage in puberty, and it will end eventually. Try to just but your underwear in your pants in the hamper, so they can't be seen.
And a tissue is good for cleanup after j/o instead of underwear.

[nick]

and she is going nuts right now talking about me being nasty, and a lil sicko, she called my dad, she even called my grandma, Oh Jeese, she’s was on the phone with her sister, I feel so bad does everyone hav tuh know my private issues.
Listen, you are not nasty, this is normal and its not something you chose or can control.

Most of the other replies tell you to wank more. It might help, but I'm not so sure. Since I discovered masturbation I have wanked to ejaculation most days, and some days more than once, but all the same I went through a period where I had regular wet dreams. Still get them sometimes. Maybe some of us are just programmed to cum more than others.

Your mum should not be telling your other relatives about this, its a private thing, and for Christ's sake she should not be surprised or freaked out to find out that her teenaged son ejaculates. What does she expect?

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this, its completely stupid. Just try not to let it get to you. You are not some kind of pervert, you are just a normal boy going through puberty.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Bad deal dude, WOW I cant imagine a parent doing that to her son. It is nature(al) and should not be made fun of. I would just try to jo close to bedtime or right before... and maybe more often as the evening progresses. I am sure, hopefully, that at least your dad understands that it is natural for boys to wet dream and/or masturbate. Good Luck !

[ericthekid]

sounds like your mom is a crazy biotch, no offense

[Electra Heart]

what she did was WAY out of line, talk to someone about it BESIDES your mum

[Unsolvedmind]

You can't stop wet dreams it's not your fault!