uh.. problems 'down there'

[Okki]

I didnt know whether or not to put this in the Puberty forum or the Relationships and Dating forum but I decided to put it here..

I get random erections during school, erections while looking at porn etc. My gf started feeling me up for the past week and i get turned on but a little nervous but yeah, really turned on but umm..nothing happened 'down there' and i was kind of worried if something is wrong.. she is really nice looking and i really like her but ... nothing :confused: .

[Sapphire]

Shes probably not touching you up enough to get you hard. I'm not a guy, so it's just a guess really. But if you were to do more with her then you'd most def get a hard on.

This would be better in the puberty forum. Request move.

[Aηdy]

[Moving to puberty]

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[Glasgow]

Hmm, Usually i find it quite easy to get hard when your with a girlfriend. But everyones different, try feeling her up too. That always workss

[johnny91]

Sometimes if your really nervous you cant get it up. Like if you know that you are about to have sex, you sometimes cannot get it up...so i've heard but you should feel comfortable around your gf...idk

[Underground_Network]

Try viagra lol... Try to calm yourself down, it is true that nerves may cause you to be unable to be erect, but just try and let your gf feel you up a little more, or if you know she's coming, get erect before she gets there. :P

[DestroyTheFuture]

no i dont think thats what hes asking, i think hes concerned because he cant get a boner (virtually, as turned on as possible) while around his girlfriend which might tell him that he doesnt really like her.


my advice, you are straight obviously, but your most likely just a bit nervous or self conscious even. i know if a had a gf, i wouldnt want to get a boner with her unless we were having sex or something...id thnk itd be kind of embarrassing to be with her in school and get a boner.

but basically your alright dude and its normal so dont worry about it too much. if she questions why youre not hard, just tell her when i told you.

[Underground_Network]

I was kidding about the viagra thing... Oh yeah, i got carried away in the previous post... But neways its probably just nerves, just focus on her nothing else. Pretend its just you and her, nothing else in your life, no stress, no problems, no nothing, then you should hopefully get hard, and enjoy your time with your gf. :P

[Whisper]

random erections are EXTREMLY common during puberty
literally its your lil man's way of working out
strengthening the muscles that hold the blood in
thats why they happen at REALLY random moments...like during your english final...

Theres nothing wrong with you or your gf
you said yourself you were nervous

anxiety and stress can have a dramatic impact on your ability to get and maintain an erection
again
common
and PERFECTLY normal


Viargra is extremly dangerous at our age
never take it!

[Sianniy]

Maybe it was because you were too nervous.
i had a bf once and he was dead nervous and as you said nothing happened down there. dw about it... everything will be fine. just try and remain calm and like not be so nervous basically.. im sure she really likes you, so just dont worry (: x

[Gumleaf]

Maybe it was because you were too nervous.
i had a bf once and he was dead nervous and as you said nothing happened down there. dw about it... everything will be fine. just try and remain calm and like not be so nervous basically.. im sure she really likes you, so just dont worry (: x

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