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Matt1126
July 21st, 2011, 07:43 PM
Do you guys think that a guy is gay or bi or something if he cares about how he looks and how he dresses?

Angel Androgynous
July 21st, 2011, 07:45 PM
No. A guy should care. I wouldn't date a guy who does not care about his appearence at least a little bit.

IanMilo
July 21st, 2011, 07:45 PM
I think everyone cares how they look. Jocks care if they look muscular enough. Preps care about their hair and "contemporary (they suck at it) clothing. Scene care about hair and clothes.

I think Gays being the only people who care how they look is the worst stereotype ever. EVERYONE wants to look good.

Matt1126
July 21st, 2011, 07:47 PM
Alright

Derek951
July 22nd, 2011, 02:54 AM
It's the attitude. You can care about how you look, you just can't LOOK like you care. Like, if you're checking the mirror all the time or making a big fuss or you criticize other people. That's the stuff that makes people think you're weird.

LifeisLife
July 22nd, 2011, 10:16 AM
There's a lot of guys in my class (especially 2 of them) that care so much about their clothes and hair! It's basically just ridiculous, but they're both straight. All guys in my class are as far as I know :P (except me)

coolguy1996
July 23rd, 2011, 04:58 AM
I think it's only NORMAL for any guy to care about what they look like to an extent. There might be something wrong with a guy who just doesn't give a damn. I think every guy cares it's just that what looks "good enough" for them , isn't good for an individual or a group of people.

Jennifer's Ashes
July 26th, 2011, 08:11 AM
Absolutely not. I like a guy to care about his appearance. Shows that he's making an effort for you, and for people in general.

Hope4u
July 26th, 2011, 09:17 AM
just like Cherub says...it shows that he's making an effort..I'm not going to go out with some slob...lol

unknownuser
July 26th, 2011, 09:54 PM
No. A guy should care. I wouldn't date a guy who does not care about his appearence at least a little bit.
Agreed.

To an extent, everyone should care.

nifty
July 27th, 2011, 11:03 PM
no not at all

Hank Hill
July 27th, 2011, 11:52 PM
Definetely not.

Guillermo
July 31st, 2011, 10:54 PM
Usually not; only if they're close-minded. But it's not "gay" at all for boys - or anyone for that matter - to care about what they wear or look like

Dimitri
July 31st, 2011, 11:10 PM
I always make sure may hair is nice and I look presentable before I leave my house, I wouldn't feel right if I didn't.

Upintheair
August 5th, 2011, 05:00 PM
I absolutely dont think it is gay! A guy who cares about hygiene and the way he presents himself is very attractive! I would not go on a date with a guy that smelled bad and wore dirty clothes

Fourth Dimension
August 10th, 2011, 03:10 AM
Nope

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Ihaveleftforever
August 10th, 2011, 05:16 AM
Dressing tacky and bad just like is eww....No guys SHOULD have sence of style, I hate going around and seeing people who don't even care what they look like.....

louisgray
August 11th, 2011, 03:39 AM
so i care about how i look,that makes me gay? NO it dosnt,it means im self respecting

judahtics
August 11th, 2011, 03:45 AM
i'm straight, and i care how i look. some days more than others, but i always care to a degree.

Sage
August 11th, 2011, 06:39 AM
Everyone cares about how they look.

Tiggz
August 11th, 2011, 07:32 PM
not really i no alot of guys that care about how they look and there straight

lilj231
August 13th, 2011, 11:27 PM
I care a lot about it and people at my school think It's weird

WhimsicalFlower
August 16th, 2011, 11:38 PM
no, a guy not caring about how he looks is just an old stereotype. it's good you care about how you look.

HAWAiiAN 808
August 17th, 2011, 12:27 AM
i'm straight, but i always take care of how i look. I get my haircut almost once a week, get my eyebrows done every 2 weeks, and do my normal manscaping every 3 days. A lot of girls i know say that they like guys who are well groomed and look good. To them, it means that the guy cares for his appearance and are willing to go the extra mile to look presentable.

Timmy93
August 17th, 2011, 02:16 AM
nope not at all i always dress to impress and have swag like crazy because you never know who you might see at a store or mall or wherever

ERB-lade
August 17th, 2011, 02:23 AM
my friends think its weird that i dry blow my hair 0_o
and every morning i don't know what to choose to put on.
i always shop with my sis, she is very nice to me :D
FREEEEE

greetz blade

jacob_1995
August 23rd, 2011, 02:41 PM
no not at all, i care about how i look and how i dress.
it's important to make a good impression on people and to maintain a fresh and clean appearance.
as long as you're not checking the mirror and changing clothes the entire day it's fine

screamtobeheard
August 24th, 2011, 08:03 AM
Yeah, it's pretty normal for a guy to care about how he looks. My boyfriend cares about how he looks, and I'm pretty sure he's straight. It's normal.

Rawrgasm
August 28th, 2011, 07:13 AM
i always care how i look, if my hair isnt right in the morning i go for a shower..

superstar2067
August 31st, 2011, 03:53 AM
As people have said before, everyone cares about their looks. I myself care a lot. I carefully pick out my clothes and spend 5 minutes styling my hair (It's not that long but long for me :P)

joetrip
September 9th, 2011, 02:27 PM
yea i try to match every day and not have hot mess hair.

TrentRyan
September 12th, 2011, 08:46 PM
I care and I'm still technically straight :P

BOSSPENGUIN
September 12th, 2011, 08:51 PM
from my expeirence girls dont like guys who dont give a damn about there appearance like the dudes at school that are fat from overeating and stuff thats not caring. i care about how i look but i dont spend hours preparing for school i get a pair of b ball shorts a shirt fix my hair so isnt sticking out put on deoderant brush my teeth and im ready for the day its that kinda stuff

BaNd
September 14th, 2011, 06:41 PM
srry but a guy should always care when he is dressing of unless of course hes at home doing nothing. im straight and care about wht i wear

Jupiter
September 14th, 2011, 07:03 PM
no. a guy who cares about how he looks is smart.

SimSailorNick
September 17th, 2011, 08:08 PM
Everyone should care about how they look no matter what gender.

Tonebone88
September 17th, 2011, 09:17 PM
Caring intensely about how you look is called being metrosexual and that doesn''t mean that you're gay, it just means that you like to look good.

zerosix22
September 18th, 2011, 03:03 PM
no he is not. eerybody cares on how they look :)

macbox84
September 20th, 2011, 09:40 PM
Not at all...I'm straight and I definitely care about how I look...looking presentable just shows u have self respect and that ur confident and that u actually care

ImCoolBeans
September 25th, 2011, 11:03 AM
Everyone cares about how they look.

Exactly, it's just unattractive not not care how you look.

Mike93
September 26th, 2011, 01:59 PM
Almost everyone cares about how they look :) thats pretty normal..

LuckyLuke
October 16th, 2011, 10:04 PM
Everyone, whether or not they admit it, cares about how they look and how they present themselves to the world.

mranderson
October 18th, 2011, 02:08 PM
Everyone cares about how they look, some just care more then others, but if u didnt, ude be wearing 1$ cloths from the thrift store

andy223
October 21st, 2011, 07:10 PM
Not at all

Alex_16
October 21st, 2011, 07:58 PM
why would that be gay ... im a guy.. im straight.. and i 100% care what i look like and dress like... its normal... the only thing i usually dont really care about is my facial hair... i let it grow out forever... cuz im just lazy about it

AustinFB
October 23rd, 2011, 04:12 PM
nah, i care how i look... and im straight.

Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 08:10 PM
no. if they don't care about how they look, then i think they have something wrong with them.

Carlyle
October 24th, 2011, 05:51 AM
So a guy caring if he looks good and presentable determines sexuality?.. No. Its fine if they care how they look, most everybody does and if you aren't, your lying to yourself.

Eclipsical
October 24th, 2011, 02:52 PM
who REALLY doesn't care how they look?

Lucy the looney
October 24th, 2011, 03:19 PM
why is this gay?

libra210
October 24th, 2011, 10:38 PM
I always make sure I look good before I go out in public... I cant stand being "slobish"

llamafarmer
November 11th, 2011, 08:31 PM
Well it's hot when a guy dresses good, but i hope they're gay if they're hot so ... i guess i think they have metrosexuality which could lead to a case of the homosexual... so idk

amscramhick
November 11th, 2011, 10:11 PM
No. Caring about how you look, is good. Girls like that, we don't want a guy who just doesn't give a shit. You have to try, even if it's just a bit.

fatguystrangler
November 13th, 2011, 10:01 AM
Do you guys think that a guy is gay or bi or something if he cares about how he looks and how he dresses?

Of course not, nobody wants a stinky hairy zit covered neckbeard.

ThomasE
November 18th, 2011, 03:45 PM
There is nothing wrong with a guy caring about how he looks.
Just as long he isn't full of himself it's alright.

There is nothing "gay" about caring.. I'm completely straight and i care about how i look. :)

Faolan
March 13th, 2013, 12:04 AM
No Way! I'm bi, but I don't count!

Berad
March 13th, 2013, 12:47 AM
Nope, don't see how caring about you look is "gay" in any way.

AbbaZabba
March 13th, 2013, 11:10 AM
Not at all, I respect that very much.

ninja747
March 19th, 2013, 03:56 AM
Not at all, im pretty sure everyone cares about how they look.

Tinker
March 19th, 2013, 08:10 AM
No a guy should care about how they look

AJJ1
March 19th, 2013, 05:45 PM
we are all human and should care bout our outer appearance

nfs4394
March 19th, 2013, 10:01 PM
I definitely don't think it's gay to care about how you present yourself to other people. I take the time everyday to make sure I look decent before I go out because I respect myself enough to do that. If anything, people respect me because of it

maxx14
March 20th, 2013, 08:39 PM
Having a sense of fashion/style doesn't mean your gay or bi

justin 13
March 21st, 2013, 02:48 PM
No dude no at all, i'm gay and Idc about clothing.

Youmadbro
March 21st, 2013, 03:36 PM
I personally like a guy that cares. I don't find him gay.

Emerald Dream
March 21st, 2013, 03:38 PM
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