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WackyZacky95
July 21st, 2011, 01:19 PM
Hello, I'm sure you all remember my problem, well, since then I've been questioning my emotional attraction towards girls, and I think I do still want a girlfriend wife etc. when I'm older, it's just I hate the doubts I bring into my own mind:@. Also, I have told people I like a certain girl, when I only find them attractive, I don't know why, it might be because I am scared and stuff.

Also, when I think about women and picture them, for some reason a guy then flashes into my mind, I don't get erections or anything, but it just annoys me and (again) scares me a little because as I said before I do not want to be gay or bisexual, my case is very much like Chris1995's and just wondered if I could have some more guidance please?

Shenron
July 21st, 2011, 05:16 PM
I'm sure you have heard this once or twice before but nobody here can tel you your sexuality, you must determine that for yourself. I can however tell you that in order to be gay or bisexual you must have BOTH physical AND emotional attraction to the same sex. My advice is to wait this out and let it solve itself. See where you stand in a few years after the hormones that are currently raging throughout your body calm down. You can't control your hormones or how they make you feel. I also can understand your unwillingness to be gay or bisexual however you don't really have a choice. If you find yourself to be gay or bi, then you should be true to yourself. You could always force yourself to be something you aren't but then what's the point in that?

If you have any questions or want to talk feel free to pm me. :)

WackyZacky95
July 22nd, 2011, 01:29 AM
I don't think I feel emotional attraction, because I don't see a guy in the street and go I could imagine being with him and I dont, necessarily, go I want him in bed either, I do that to women and stuff.

I hate these hormones haha