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Seether
July 20th, 2011, 04:50 AM
Hello, my name is Max. I'm 13 years old, sitting here reluctantly dredding if my mom,dad,sister or brothers are reading this. First off, it all started by drinking a Coke. I was in the bath-tub and you know, ten year olds take baths. (I was 10 at the time) I decided I had enough of being made fun of at school, parks,pool and other public locations. I tore the Coke can into two. I dug into my body, and started to bleed. I did it around 15 times that day. It made me feel inferior, like no one could make fun,touch or hurt me. Things like this ruined my life, I got the biggest knife. Which happened to be a butcher knife, cut myself from the knee up.

Then I got obsessed with branding myself, I'd get a tac use a lighter warm it up and would spell out and draw on my body. I thought it was cool, but it isn't. All of those scars will be on my body. I just have one question to ask you all.

Is this abusive?

My 18 year old sister was in the kitchen trying to find something for my father, then her phone rang and she answered. My mother walked in and was on the phone too, and my sister got off the phone. She was talking to my father through the kitchen to the living room. My mother said "Go away" and my sister said "No, I'm finding Dad something" My mother got off the phone and told my sister to give her my sisters keys. My sister said, "no" my sister walked out-side and got into her car and my mother came outside and said "Get the F*** out of the car" My sister said no, and then my mom pulled her inside and punched her on her chest and she started coughing up blood. Is that abuse???

Thanks,

zuluman78
July 20th, 2011, 05:32 AM
Yeah that is very serious and i'm sorry about your past with cutting and i hope your done with it :) Your mother should not hurt her child in such a way that causes pain to an extent that she bleeds. But the thing is she's 18 and not a minor anymore so it isn't rely abuse but more of an assault and your sis could take your mom to court for that, hope she gets better :)

Clum
July 20th, 2011, 07:44 AM
Seems like you've gone through alot dude, has the self-harm stopped? I hope it does soon your doing serious damage to your life and you will regret it in the future. About the bullying at school? I would say tell a teacher but being 14 myself i realise that can make things worse. Try not to react at all, they'll get bored and stop ( i had the micky taken out of me for having BO after a long game of rugby ( stupid or what? ) and i just ignored it or laughed, they got bored after a month or so :) ) hope that helps dude. And about the mum punching your sister in the stomach, are they alright now? if not you should really contact someone.

DJZS
July 20th, 2011, 01:28 PM
Yes, that is abusive. Now, do you still hurt yourself?

TheTrueKing
July 20th, 2011, 10:36 PM
Let me start my first off saying that what youve seen and done at the age of 10-13 is pretty abusive. I think that you made an amazing recovery and you semm like a very smart person to eb able to pull yourself out from such self harm i hope you get better and the same with your sister you shoud talk to your sister if youre mother does thios stuff often she should eb sent to jail