Falling out of love?

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Ive always thought,if u stopped loving someone,u never did at all. But lately,I dont have as strong feelings for my bf. We've been together for 6 months,but...It seems like were just,drifting apart. Hes in a different city,even though,i might be moving back soon. I think I love him,but im not in love with him. Does that make any sence? I dont want to hurt him,but dragging him along when im not happy isnt fair either. But I dont want to jump to anything without being sure. How can I talk to him about this? He always gets super upset whenever I try to talk about "us". Idunno what to do.

[Ambrosia]

He needs to learn to talk to you about the relationship. Is being unwilling to communicate could be a good reason you feel this way. Tell him how you feel and make him listen. If he refuses to face the truth and try to mend the relationship then it isn't worth it.

[disassociation2016]

You might have moved on. Hopefully you'll find one that you don't move on from. I know all relationships don't make it forever.

[Hopegirl]

This happened to me..we just drifted apart and so i ended it after 10 months of being together, then got accused of never loving him which wasnt true n its just frustrating when no one seems to understand that you can fall out of love..i did..after i feel in love with someone else...just..follow your heart...:) <3

[Upintheair]

He needs to learn to talk to you about the relationship. Is being unwilling to communicate could be a good reason you feel this way. Tell him how you feel and make him listen. If he refuses to face the truth and try to mend the relationship then it isn't worth it.

I agree! Also, it is very possible to love someone, but not be in love with them. It just means that you really care for them but you dont feel the relationship anymore. I would try to talk to him face to face and see what he says. Just be very gentle because its not an easy subject

[xktx]

you just have to tell him how you feel. if he doesnt listen, then hes trying to live in the past, and you may just not be for each other anymore. The worst thing you can do is lead him on, and im not saying you are... but just be careful. x