Who would you put first? Your girlfriend or your best friend?

[LKIFMRUG9556]

I'm in a difficult situation. I've been spending a lot of time with my girlfriend recently and I really love her so much but I've been feeling guilty because I haven't seen my best friend much.

Now I love my best friend to fucking death! We're so close we've done everything together, we know each other inside out and we can talk about anything at all! He's like a brother to me. I would honestly dive in too a pit of fire to save him if I had to, the only problem being he'd jump with me!:) I'm so glad he's my friend! (we're not lovers by the way!) We're really, really close ;)

The problem is that I haven't seen him in a while because my girlfriend always wants to spend time with me and I feel like a twat because my best friend pretends he doesn't mind but I know he does. I did tell my girlfriend the other day that I'm going to see him more often and I think she takes up to much time with me and she got all pissy and jealous!

What do I do? I think I'm falling for her, but there's absolutely no fucking way on earth that I'll ditch my best friend for her.

What would you guys do?

[Dimitar223]

Spend some time with your best friend :D

[Perseus]

I would put my best friend first. Girls come and go. Best friends don't.

[Timmy93]

well my bestfriend is my girlfriend but bros before hoes doesnt work in this situation. If he is your bestfriend he should respect that you have a girlfriend and give you guys time. Bestfrends can last forever girlfriends might not.

[LKIFMRUG9556]

True. To be honest my friend means more.

[DerBear]

True. To be honest my friend means more.

Then it cant be love if he means more true love is diffcult

have you tried doing something all together

[LKIFMRUG9556]

Then it cant be love if he means more true love is diffcult

have you tried doing something all together

As if! She don't like him and bad mouths him, so she's dead to me now. :L:)

[DerBear]

Well love can touch us more than once maybe it was not ment to be her

your friend means a lot to you but when you fine true love life will look just a little diffrent

[Perseus]

Uh, why would anybody desert their friends for their girlfriend? That's a ridiculous idea.

[DerBear]

Uh, why would anybody desert their friends for their girlfriend? That's a ridiculous idea.

True love can do things to people

[Perseus]

True love can do things to people

Yeah, I know people do it. I thought you were advocating it.

[BOSS]

Well you know what they say man. "Bros Before Ho's" good advice for life.

[IanMilo]

You are only a kid still. What are the odds your relationship is forever? Bestfriends are forever though

[Best Talto Eva]

Id say put ur best friend b4 your girl becuz ur friend will always be there for u, as for relationships they come and go!

[Nat99]

pals b4 gals

[The Madman]

I would say my best friend, unless my girlfriend was a girl I had been with for a long time and was secure and happy with.

[Monster.Mike]

Stick with your best friend hey!

[grstl]

It is sort-of complicated, but this gay boy's girlfriend is also his best friend.

[Ben Michael]

well my bestfriend is my girlfriend



Same here, but I'd choose best friend but why can't you be with them both at the same time?

[LifeisLife]

To be honest, I think that if your girlfriend would be a good girlfriend that she would understand that you need to spend time with your friends aswell, not only her.

[DifferentTides]

Definitly the best friend. Many reasons. The first is the whole bro's before hoe's one (More of a joke, but the message is clear). The second, the whole love him to death thing says it all. If he is your best friend, he will stick with you through the tough times. Girlfriends comes and go, and if they can't accept that there not the only thing that is important in your life, they need a reality check.

[Nicky97]

Assuming both relationships are permanent (hahaha), the more recent one should realize that your family/older commitments come along with the deal.

[Tango]

Can you hang out with both of them together? With at least one more person so your bestfriend doesn't feel like a third wheel.

But if they can't stand each other I would go with your best friend. He will always be there for you, your girlfriend is proving she won't be by getting pissy when you say you are going to hang out with your best friend.

[Kujiro]

Any thoughtful girlfriend/boyfriend , should believe in giving their partner their own time with their friends.

It's never good in being too possessive, it may cause negative abrasions in a relationship.
But if I'm placed on the table, both of them are equally important,
I believe that my partner should share and understand my bestie better, while I would the same for her.

Though studies suggest that, getting into a relationship maybe risk sacrificing 2 best friends, and it does seems that proper management of these 2 entities would be easier said than done.

Be it in any relationship, other than respect, we should all learn to be quick to apologize and patient, a smile is also the best way to wipe of something negative; even if it's s fake smile.

[User Deleted]

Easy, best friend.

[Sebastian Michaelis]

Tell her that she is the most important thing in your life right now, but you can't drop everything all the time for her.

[Roach]

well id try and and balance it out or try all three of you hanging out

[Giles]

You've said that your girlfriend doesn't get along with your best friend so I'd say forget her and just be with your best friend. Throughout your life you'll have a lot of girlfriends, but that friend (if you're as close as you say you are) is likely to be with you for many years to come.

[flumeendeavors]

Your best friend. Girlfriends come and go.. and if your girlfriend isnt alright with that then she's obviously not a good thing for you anyways. But friends are forever. Seriously...stick with your friend.

[acid_rayne]

You can always find another girl but you cant replace the bond between your friend whick took years to create so id fust my best m8 first

[AltoVaughn]

Easy Answer to the question. The one who is going to be there for you. Sounds like your friend, I can't stand jealous people anyway.

[superstar2067]

Spend time with your bestfriend. Simple as that.

[NomSan]

My best friend of course.

[Echo]

You should try to evenly (more or less) spend time with both. Or all of you guys can hangout together (but if she doesn't like your best friend, that'll be tough)... And as everyone has said before me, relationships can come and go at any time, but best friends stay.

[danieltheawesome]

My girlfriend is my best friend!
We're kind of rebels so we. Don't really make many other friends

[bigjohnson]

definatly my best friend they were there first

[danieltheawesome]

Even if me and Krissy break up (which isn't very likely as we've been together for pretty much our whole lives) we'll sill be best mates

[Syvelocin]

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