How do you get over someone?

[SimSailorNick]

I realized that there's a very small possibility that i can be with this person so i just stopped trying to get closer but the problem is i can't get over him and it's like i'm being eaten alive inside. I really need help. Any advice?

[bakrb448]

Congrats
Youve asked a question I have, and dont know the answer to

Have a fresh baked cookie

[Apollo.]

Time will help, if not try and just tell the person how you feel

[Stefani]

Only time can heal a broken heart, there really nothing for it. Sometimes "getting over it" means learning to live with the pain, and appreciating what you did have. Just aceept what happened and try and live on.

[Upintheair]

time is definitely the answer but also finding someone new. if you find someone else who makes you happy, its much easier to move on from the one before

[Dan_UK]

time is definitely the answer but also finding someone new. if you find someone else who makes you happy, its much easier to move on from the one before


Personally I think this is a really bad piece of advice to give, and it's something I see girls do all too often, they end one relationship then jump to another guy who they don't really care for, they're just on the rebound and don't want to be alone, then it often ends in the girl realising this and the guy being dropped with no idea what the hell happened but now feels crap.


HOWEVER; it's the idea behind the idea that I do agree with. Keep yourself busy; hobbies, chatting to close friends a lot etc, try to avoid too much time alone with your thoughts, and then as time passes it becomes easier.

So keep yourself busy with things rather than using someone you don't really care about to "fill the gap" that's been left behind by the person you're trying to get over

[Cartoon]

Keep yourself busy. Go hangout with some friends.

[xktx]

find someone who makes you truly happy, maybe even more happier than before, they key to a happy relationship is honesty it may seem odd, or like your hurting them, but the people you hurt and leave were obviously not meant to be there, the ones that forgive you and stay with you despite your faults are. tell this current boyfriend how you feel, or you could enf up hurting him even more, trust me ive been there. x

[dontcare97]

Friends, family, school, hobbies. The would doesn't end with you break up. Do soemthing you haven't in a while. Enjoy your time single.

[Ben Michael]

Try to find someone else and that'll get your mind off her

[Dimitri]

I eat ice cream and play the piano, that's how I deal.

[Kayden]

Do things you enjoy (: