Just been thinking a lot

[ImCoolBeans]

Ok so after a party in the town next to mine i was walking back to my friends house with him, it was a good two hour walk at 2 am, one of those great talk and walk walks. so as we rambled i mentioned that i thought that i was in love with one of my bestfriends, who is also one of his. we all chill together in the same group, but that really got me thinking. i've never felt like this in my entire life. just the thought of her makes me want to smile. she couldn't be a better match for me and we have the world in common. i'm not so sexually attracted to her that im thinking wow i need to tap that, its on a different level than that, i seriously think i love her. and i don't know what to do about it :wub::wub::wub::wub::wub:

[Sage]

Short answer: Ask her out.

[TheMatrix]

Short answer: Ask her out.
This. It couldn't get simpler.
D'er.

[Tango]

Don't over complicate it and just ask her out!

[ImCoolBeans]

its not that simple, shes my bestfriend i cant just ask her out, totally blind sided

[Sage]

i cant just ask her out
Yes you can. You have a mouth, yes? You're capable of communicating with your voice, aren't you?

[Tango]

its not that simple, shes my bestfriend i cant just ask her out, totally blind sided

Drop hints then. Gradually let her know that you like her. Then ask her out after she understands that you like her more then a friend.

[Sage]

Drop hints then. Gradually let her know that you like her. Then ask her out after she understands that you like her more then a friend.

Hints are juvenile and will only cause you stress. Get it out of your system. Make your intentions clear. If she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, so be it. You'll meet thousands of girls. If she doesn't want to even talk to you anymore, so be it. You are more than capable of making new friends.

[ImCoolBeans]

Hints are juvenile and will only cause you stress. Get it out of your system. Make your intentions clear. If she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, so be it. You'll meet thousands of girls. If she doesn't want to even talk to you anymore, so be it. You are more than capable of making new friends.

im sorry but your just a straight up douche bag

[Sage]

im sorry but your just a straight up douche bag

You have two options: You can ask her out and get it out of your system, or you can keep it to yourself and live in fear. Relationships aren't easy. I'm not going to pretend they are. Neither is asking a girl out, but you can't get fixated on your fear of the worst possible outcome. Often, in life, you just have to go out and do things, no matter how much you may dread doing them. Mind over matter, champ.

[ImCoolBeans]

You have two options: You can ask her out and get it out of your system, or you can keep it to yourself and live in fear. Relationships aren't easy. I'm not going to pretend they are. Neither is asking a girl out, but you can't get fixated on your fear of the worst possible outcome. Often, in life, you just have to go out and do things, no matter how much you may dread doing them. Mind over matter, champ.

i'm sorry, thanks for you're advice. i appreciate it

[Sage]

i'm sorry, thanks for you're advice. i appreciate it

I accept your apology. Just look at it this way: You keep telling yourself "I can't, I can't, I can't," and everyone in this thread is saying "Actually, you can." Don't cut yourself short. Ask the girl out and have a good time.