World Comes Tumbling

[IanMilo]

So today one of my best friends for upward of 5 years decided that her College boyfriend (we're only going into 10th grade High School) was more important than our trio (me her, and another close friend). She let's him control her and so he decided he was tired of her always hanging out with us so he told her to ditch us. Also, he is homeless. His whole family just moved to another state so he decided to stay. And he has been doing nothing about getting a job. I am really worried about her. I just am so tired of her making so many bad choices. I haven't cut myself in over three months but I am so tempted to right now. I am just so tired of bottling up all my emotions just for one person to give me the blow that breaks the bottle. And as if it wasn't bad enough he openly abuses me about my sexuality, over facebook no less. Which is another issue I have been dealing with (Texans will sympathize). Sop basically I am an emotional wreck right now.

[bakrb448]

You cant control, what you cant control.
Just let it be, and be prepared for her to come crawling back to you.

For the FB issue, I find the Block button helps alot, otherwise try to not let it get to you

[DJZS]

Im always here if you'd like to talk. Cutting yourself wont help this problem at all. all you can do is try talking to your friend.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Im sorry to hear that. My friend of almost nine years did that to. I hooked her up with the guy shes liked,he seemed okai,at first. Then before u know it,he doesnt want her around any of her friends. And whenever we tried to,jokingly,pull her away he would grab her arm and dig his nails into her. Hes an abusive asshole who would constantly call me a dirty good for nothing slut. So i told her,guys come and go,but friends are forever,and if u keep pushing me away,when he breaks ur heart,DONT come crying to me. So she tried alittle harderd to make time for me and our other bestie. Maybe try talking to her about how everythings gotten outta hand sence they hooked up,but in a gentle way. As for him commenting on ur sexuality. Thats just disgusting, I wouldnt let someone like THAT bother u. Have u told ur friend what hes doing? U could always just say F*ck it,and block the loser. I hope things work out for u and ur friend.

[IanMilo]

Thanks for responding guys. But frankly she has been a really bad friend from the get go. I feel like it is time for me to let her go so I can move on with my life. But thanks for responding.

[CyanideGoodnight]

If you feel like this, then maybe this is the perfect opertunity to let her go? And also, like the other people said, block the douchebag.