my "friend"

[LifeisLife]

i'm not sure if this is under the right part of this forum but feel free to move it if you want to...

My bestfriend and I had a huge fight, now we don't talk to each other anymore... We haven't talked since 3 weeks ago and I don't think we will become friends any time soon, or even just normally talk any time soon. She's coming to my school next year and I'm pretty sure we're gonna be in the same class because we asked for that when we were still friends so should I ask to be moved classes or what? I don't want to hear that I have to sort it out and talk to her about it because between her and me, it's just not gonna work out.

[DifferentTides]

If you still want to be close friends, don't think of changing class, that could possibly antaganise the situation. But I think that you need to talk too her about it eventually. Start to just talk to her. It will be hard at first cause of that fact ut,you had a fallobut sometimes we have to do hard things man. Just have a normal conversation as you would anyone else.

Don't be so sure that maybe she isn't feeling the same thing, cause she might be. I hope this helps a bit.

[Kuervo]

had the same situation with a friend two years ago. we had a few classes together and i cudnt stand having a class with him. but eventually we began to talk a bit and the withered plant bloomed once again (till it died just recently) but anyways, i think you guys are going to eventually become friends again. if fate brought u guys together to be close friends, then u guys will be friends. things wil be sorted out. i wud tell you to keep ur schedule as it is, but if u want to change it, then thts up to you. Good Luck :)

[Tango]

I wouldn't change classes.

I don't know what happened with your fight, but me and my best friend got in a huge fight but having a class together later brought us back together. And there will be other people in the class, if you don't want to talk to her you don't have to.

[Hailstorm]

i would just tell her when you have class togath just not to be enmies or friends just to leave eachother alone and it should be fine ive done that b4 with the same situation

[LifeisLife]

the thing is that I don't want to talk to her or be anywhere near her, and she doesn't want any reminder of our friendship and I really doubt she'll want to talk to me, or even see me for that matter.

[DifferentTides]

I really doubt she'll want to talk to me, or even see me for that matter.

Don't be so sure man. I know it is awkward (believe me, i get it). I could stand to even look or talk to one of my close friend's (which i have mentioned on VT before) for a looooong while. But all i wanted was to resolved things with him. Embrace change as it comes, but don't change just to escape an awkward situation or if you don't like it.

Give it time, find your supports and use them. Keep strong :)

[LifeisLife]

:/ i'll try

[LKIFMRUG9556]

Lets hope things improve:/

[LifeisLife]

agreed.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

Ive been in this situation and I was the bigger person nd called my friend and talked for about an hour and we hung out again!
So my advice is to text, or call your friend and talk things out! She should understand and if she doesnt and is still really mad at u then I believe she dont like you any more
So just talk things out with her K :)

[LifeisLife]

So my advice is to text, or call your friend and talk things out! PROBLEMS: i dont have her phone number anymore and she doesnt even WANT to talk to me. :( i doubt we'll ever get close again.