Why don't I like boys ?

[Hershey's Kisses]

I don't know if this is normal or not at my age, but I do not like any boys. I mean, I think some boys are attractive, but I don't want a boyfriend and I don't like any boys. Does that mean I'm gay ? I really hope not ! I don't like girls in that way, either, so it's not like I have a crush on a girl. Any answers ? Or at least advice ?>

[LuckyLuke]

First of all honey, what age are you?

Second, no your not gay seeing as you don't like either sex. Does that mean you're not going to be gay in the future? No. But as of now, you're neither straight nor gay.

Third, you've likely yet to enter the more advanced stages of puberty seeing as you're not attracted to either sex.

[Angel Androgynous]

Maybe you are asexual? Or maybe pansexual? Who knows? (: How old are you? You are probably still growing.... and your hormones aren't on the loose yet. ^_^

[LuckyLuke]

Maybe you are asexual? Or maybe pansexual? Who knows? (: How old are you? You are probably still growing.... and your hormones aren't on the loose yet. ^_^

Kara's definitely not pansexual (although anything's possible in the future.).

As for asexal, she didn't seem as though she had sexual urges and therefore I believe her to have not hit puberty.

[Hershey's Kisses]

I'm 13, which in my opinion is that at that age tou don't need a boyfriend. I doubt I'm gay... I just don't even like boys or want a boy friend. Granted, some boys I think are handsome/ attractive/ but I don't like any boys or girls.


Yes, I did hit puberty but I don't think I] really have urges... I feel like an outcast compared to all the girls I know who are all having one boyfriend after another. Anyway, does age have anything to do with it ?

[LuckyLuke]

I'm 13, which in my opinion is that at that age tou don't need a boyfriend. I doubt I'm gay... I just don't even like boys or want a boy friend. Granted, some boys I think are handsome/ attractive/ but I don't like any boys or girls.

Listen Kara,

I didn't want a girlfriend until I was 15 and I didn't have enough initiative (a girl I truly liked and not someone who was trying whore up with me) until I was 17. You not having these desires or urges yet is totally normal and fine. Wait until your damn well ready and comfortable! Whether that be tomorrow or 5 years from now, it doesn't matter.

Also, even though you've entered puberty you've likely yet to hit the stage where you're sexually attracted to men/women. Finding someone attractive and being sexually attracted is two totally different things.

[Ambrosia]

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