friend or boyfriend?

[dajakesta10]

well, my old best friend, of whom I am still very good friends with, has decided to take it further between us... without telling me. this happened a couple of years ago, but I only just now remembered. I was sleeping round his house, with PJs on, but I woke up in the middle of the night, naked, with him sucking me. I enjoyed it, but I should never have had to. we still talk a lot, to this day, but he's never mentioned that night, not once. he has now decided to actually turn this into something between us, but I cant help but keep remembering that night or in the morning when his mum found me lying on the bed naked. I was only 10 at the time, so she more than likely didn't mind, but I don't think I can ever look at him the same. have i done the right thing by not telling anyone?

[sydneyboy16]

Wow. well you have done something right by not telling anyone, however u need to talk to him about it - otherwise u will continue never being able to feel the same. If he was ten when he sucked u off.. he might just have wantedto try some stuff out? If Ur still good friends now, depending on Ur age, then definitely talk about it... But don't make it bad/awkward. U need to approach it nicely, as if I've forgotten about it but intereted/want to know more.... if he doesn't remember - forget about it.. if he hasn't done anything else after that night then he most likely accepted that Ur not interested in him like that...

Hope this helps :S

XAV FROM SYD

[sydneyboy16]

* I've forgotten = you've sort of forgotten
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[Nicky97]

.... he has now decided to actually turn this into something between us ....
What are you saying here? Unclear. At 10 or 13, this doesn't mean "boyfriend" in any way. If all that's involved is a little fun, don't make a deal out of it, do or don't do whatever feels good. But you guys are old enough now to talk about it.

He is/was your best friend? But you guys can't talk? How can that be? Someone is letting their fear get in the way of friendship.

[percyholl]

Friends are very important in our life. Friends are those who help us in every situations gives us support. To having true friend is like having treasure.

[CryWolf]

It seems strange that you only just remembered this. However, if it is an issue with you then you need to talk to him about it. Especially if you both are really considering going to a new level. Friendship needs honesty to survive. Relationships that go beyond friendship require honesty to survive. Good luck! :)