there's no point for me

[dajakesta10]

:( I am a guy. I have guy interests. but, I also like other guys. that's my downfall, I also like girls. I'm bisexual. but nobody can accept that. anyway, I fancy a boy in the year below me in school. I'm fourteen, he's only thirteen. if that doesn't make it bad enough, he's also fat, all my friends think he's annoying and he wears glasses. I feel pathetic. not only do I feel bad for liking him, I also feel as though I'm the only one who likes him. not even his friends like him, they don't even choose to hang out with him. my friends know about how I feel about him, but that only makes it worse as I feel as though whenever I spend even the smallest amount of time with just him and me, they are thinking I'm hitting on him or something. I want to let him know how I feel, though I'm unable to say it to his face because in our school, rumours travel faster than gamma rays in a vacuum and I can't deal with that as well as everything else. please, can someone help me feel better about myself by maybe suggesting other ways I can tell him.

[Jennifer's Ashes]

Try and be a friend to him, it sounds like he needs one. And you seem to have a lot in common, so you might be perfect for the job. Try and befriend him, and once you both feel comfortable you might be able to tell him how you really feel. Just don't go too fast.

[LuckyLuke]

:( I am a guy. I have guy interests. but, I also like other guys. that's my downfall, I also like girls. I'm bisexual. but nobody can accept that. anyway, I fancy a boy in the year below me in school. I'm fourteen, he's only thirteen. if that doesn't make it bad enough, he's also fat, all my friends think he's annoying and he wears glasses. I feel pathetic. not only do I feel bad for liking him, I also feel as though I'm the only one who likes him. not even his friends like him, they don't even choose to hang out with him. my friends know about how I feel about him, but that only makes it worse as I feel as though whenever I spend even the smallest amount of time with just him and me, they are thinking I'm hitting on him or something. I want to let him know how I feel, though I'm unable to say it to his face because in our school, rumors travel faster than gamma rays in a vacuum and I can't deal with that as well as everything else. please, can someone help me feel better about myself by maybe suggesting other ways I can tell him.


Before we start I'd like to complement your spelling. Rarely do I find threads with nearly no errors and other than "rumors", it was perfect.

Alright friend, let's begin:

- You having "guy interests" and being bi-sexual has absolutely no relation. There are homosexual and bi men of every type and caliber.

- 14 and 13 are of little difference. There's been many a thread with differences ranging from 1 year to as much as,I've seen, 17 years. One year is not an obstacle in terms of age difference.

- If you "fancy" him whether or not he's fat, blind, without legs or arms, or has the voice of a 5 year old is totally irrelevant. It SHOULDN'T MATTER. You like him, that's all that matters. If you truly care for him, you'll overlook his faults rather than being petty and questioning whether or not to go out with him.

- Your friends are jack asses, quite frankly. They're judging you for liking someone just because he wears glasses or is a bit on the loner-side? Screw them, you don't need those types of people in your life.

- HOW THE HELL is _TELLING HIM_ allowing rumors to spread? That makes no sense. If you tell him directly, well, that's the one way to ensure that rumors don't spread.

I feel you're being petty and silly in a way that only 14 year olds can. You like him, tell him. Screw what your friends think, they're not great friends if they can't respect your tastes anyway.

[Angel Androgynous]

Before we start I'd like to complement your spelling. Rarely do I find threads with nearly no errors and other than "rumors", it was perfect.

Alright friend, let's begin:

- You having "guy interests" and being bi-sexual has absolutely no relation. There are homosexual and bi men of every type and caliber.

- 14 and 13 are of little difference. There's been many a thread with differences ranging from 1 year to as much as,I've seen, 17 years. One year is not an obstacle in terms of age difference.

- If you "fancy" him whether or not he's fat, blind, without legs or arms, or has the voice of a 5 year old is totally irrelevant. It SHOULDN'T MATTER. You like him, that's all that matters. If you truly care for him, you'll overlook his faults rather than being petty and questioning whether or not to go out with him.

- Your friends are jack asses, quite frankly. They're judging you for liking someone just because he wears glasses or is a bit on the loner-side? Screw them, you don't need those types of people in your life.

- HOW THE HELL is _TELLING HIM_ allowing rumors to spread? That makes no sense. If you tell him directly, well, that's the one way to ensure that rumors don't spread.

I feel you're being petty and silly in a way that only 14 year olds can. You like him, tell him. Screw what your friends think, they're not great friends if they can't respect your tastes anyway.
This. :yes: Right there. ^_^