I feel so angry and sad and wishing for a bad thing.

[Nathan13]

Ok so i am so angry at my mum and dad telling me to find friends my age and making fun of me(im 14) its summer and my school freinds live too far away so i go out and about with 12 11 10 9 and 5 lol year olds and i like ity its fun i dont like the 14+ year olds that are around my area they are how you would say nedish(thuggy, gangtser-ish) they annoy people and talk like a ned(arite lets go doon tae the toon mate) but i dont and my freinds in school dont so i hate it when my parents say go find friends your own age and stop bullying your brother
which leads me to problem 2.
Ok so its raining heavily today and im staying inside so i was playing the xbox with my bro and then my cuz was wanting a turn and i said give him a go and he throughj the controller on the bed and went "i dont wanna play anymore!!" so i was going to sign him out and then he grabs my arm and digs his nails going give me my controller back then my dad tell me im grounded and banned from xbox
so i feel so angry about all that and sad that my parent annoy me

and now i know why suicidel people kill them selfs its so ANNOYING!!

i just wish i was 20 so i wouldnt have to find friends my own age blah blah blah but i dont wanna be 20 because then i cant play on my 10 yr olod friends trampoline and make a den wich 14 yr olds dont do but i do



im sdo annyoed

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Theres no problem not liking certain people in ur age group hun,its completely normal. I think ur parents said what they did bc they want u to make close friends and feel accepted. Maybe they dont think u could have that with someone younger. I hang with people afew years younger then me. And hey maybe u like kids,idunno,but theres nothing wrong with it. And as for ur brother,is he younger? Ive been grounded for something that was my niece fault. Sometimes things just arent fare,but it doesnt me u should kill urself bc of it. 14 is a akward age. Ur trying to find ur "click" socially and to understand urself & who u r as a person. Im 16 and i still love playing with my baby nieces,and just being plain childish sometimes. Things will get better and smooth out,but in order for that to happen,u have to be alive and breathing. Things always work themselves out,and ur anger will pass. Maybe try to vent and get rid of ur negative feelings in a healthy way. Like punching or screaming into a pillow,or going for a really long tiring run or walk so ur exhausted,so then u can relax.

[Nathan13]

Wow thanks but just to make sure i DONT want to kill myself thats just plain stupid

anyway my bro is 11 and he lies alot to get me in trouble

talking to people on facebook ect calms me down i felt like i wanted to break my laptop

anyway +1 for you!

oh but the thing is: is there a way to stop my parents anoying me about not hanging about with 14 yo's?

[DJZS]

Just talk to your parents and try to explain how you feel.

[zuluman78]

You should sit down with your parents and inform them of the situation and why you hang with the friends you have, if you feel comfortable with them its fine. :)

[Nicky97]

I really enjoy my time with younger guys, and with older (mostly online, talking serious stuff). That's who I am. I consider myself balanced, and I would have to tell my parents to stop and pay some attention to their son and what he's doing. If they don't understand you, it's because they are not trying (now THAT is a problem). If they don't see the dynamic between you are your brother, again that's their shortcoming.

Annoying? Sure, but not your fault. Nothing to apologize for. Younger kids are so much fun, and every year past 12 starts to suck so bad. Your parents are adults, insist that you be able to treat them as adults. I hope they do care enough to listen to you.

Good luck. VM me if you need to talk. Stand your ground on this, be yourself, stand up for yourself.

[rukia_yua]

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[Nathan13]

I really enjoy my time with younger guys, and with older (mostly online, talking serious stuff). That's who I am. I consider myself balanced, and I would have to tell my parents to stop and pay some attention to their son and what he's doing. If they don't understand you, it's because they are not trying (now THAT is a problem). If they don't see the dynamic between you are your brother, again that's their shortcoming.

Annoying? Sure, but not your fault. Nothing to apologize for. Younger kids are so much fun, and every year past 12 starts to suck so bad. Your parents are adults, insist that you be able to treat them as adults. I hope they do care enough to listen to you.

Good luck. VM me if you need to talk. Stand your ground on this, be yourself, stand up for yourself.


THANKS !! thats the best post the reason i hang with younger people is because i act and look younger and i realsie now that who cares im myself i dont need to follow the crowd so yeah xD

[Clum]

believe me, there are arseholes at every age. And i have a little brother and he gets away with EVERYTHING. And he's spoilt so much. Thats just life bro, thats why i dont play with my brother any more x]

[Nathan13]

okay

why did you say ok?