I feel so empty and don't know what to do

[tincan]

hello all,

ive been with a girl for about a month now and shes so lovely. im 15 and dont have many/any friends as ive messed my life up in the past. She's became everything to me and I have been seeing her every few days when I don't normally see anyone.

We have been texting each other a lot and yesterday you can tell that something isnt right. She writes very short or even one word texts and no longer ends them with xxxx. it's like shes given up but I reallt don't know. What should I do? I don't want to annoy her by keeping sending texts but I totally don't know what to do. Ive stopped eating because of it and havent eaten for two days, when I do eat it makes me feel sick and even worse. I feel really sick of my life as it's already messed up and now someone which was everything to me seems to have stopped liking me too.

please somebody help.
thank you

[Sage]

Relationships are like drugs, kiddo. You can't expect the initial high (the time right after you two get together) to last forever. It's to be expected that one or both parties involved can't maintain the romantic puppydog attitude forever and the interaction between you two will become friendlier. You don't think it's a bit of an irrational conclusion to jump to that because she doesn't include xxxxxxxx in her texts, she doesn't like you anymore? You've been going out for a month, she shouldn't have to remind you of her feelings.

But hey, maybe she really isn't all that into you anymore. People can be fickle, and you'll just have to deal with it. But either way, talking to her about it can't hurt.

[FullyAlive]

Maybe yesterday she was having a bad day and not really in the mood to talk, or maybe she was busy and didn't really have the time to be texting you but felt bad so rather than not replying, sent a few one word texts. No one will be able to tell you what was wrong except her so you need to talk to you. Don't just assume you know what's going on there is probably a reasonable explanation. After all so she sent you one word texts lacking x's it's hardly the biggest deal in the world. So talk to her.

And also a word of advice don't make this girl your everything, chances are she probably isn't worth it, you'll end up hurt. Balance your life.

[tincan]

Thanks you 2.

i suppose the decision the not putting xxxx on the end of texts is a bit of a rational one - just seems weird that yesterday and today she's suddenly stopped. but what do I know?.

Do you think I should just send her a text like I normally would and ask if she's busy and wants to meet up?

I would just send her a text and ask her why buy I don't have the confidence to do that and it'll make me look like a fool.

thanks for your advice though, really helpful.

[FullyAlive]

Do that, just a simple text and ask if she is free. Although when you do meet up I really do recommend talking to her even if only to clear the air.

[tincan]

Do that, just a simple text and ask if she is free. Although when you do meet up I really do recommend talking to her even if only to clear the air.

Thanks its always nice to have someone elses opinion. thanks so much

[TrAnSMaN09]

I think you should just ask her whats wrong? just msg her saying, Hey(NAME) whats wrong do you want to talk about it

[tincan]

what would you guys do if she texted back saying that she doesnt want to be mates anymore? I'm just dreading it, i dont have very many friends and shes just so nice, we have lots in common and do the same things together quite a lot. I just really dont want to loose such a nice mate even if its no in a love way. urghhhhh!

[tincan]

arrrr fk. sent her a text yesterday and shes said she doesn't want to be with me in that way anymore. lifes so shit, what can i do people? help please i dont want to loose her.