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IsaMachine
July 17th, 2011, 01:09 AM
So there’s this guy who I met on Facebook and we started talking a lot, by the way he lives like 30 minutes from me and my friends no him so he’s not fake, like 24/7 actually. We were gonna meet as friends, but he ended wanting to make it a date. At that time I started liking him because he was only the second boy in my entire life who seemed to like me back. One night we skyped, and he basically raped my eyes by being in his underwear(keep in mind I’ve never met this kid in real life) and shoving his dick into the camera. Also I was on facebook and his friend was like “If things work out with Griffen, Claire and I get props.” We basically didn’t talk at all the next day. Oh and also during this entire period a lot of the time he just wanted to talk about sex and how he’s a virgin and blah blah. Finally two nights before the “date” I asked him if he liked me and he had a freak out attack on me and was like “No I just like to flirt and yaddah yaddha yaddah”. Then I lied and told him I didn’t like him. He then stopped texting me for three days, while the entire time I kept apologizing because I thought I had upset him. Finally on that Sunday i left him a voicemail explaining to him how I felt. He replied with a text saying quote on quote, “We talked for like a week. This isn’t something. Ok.” We then proceeded to argue over how he gave all the signs that he liked me. We ended on a bad note. He deleted me from facebook, and I tried to talk to his friend about it but she was a total bitch. That was two months ago. I have never liked a guy as much as I like this kid and I just got over him a couple of weeks ago. He lives up-valley from me and is in a production of Rent up there that a couple of my friends are in; naturally I have to go. Tonight one of my other friends went to see Rent and texted me saying “Such and such has told me to say hi to you”. After 2 months of hating/loving his guts and his(I’m pretty sure) hating of me, he does that. Tomorrow I’m going to see the show, and it will be actually the first time that I will see him in real life. Yeah and I don’t understand why I liked him so much, I mean I’ve never physically been around him. WHAT THE DO I DO? HELP.

ccrunner
July 17th, 2011, 01:39 AM
Just be yourself. Know your morals and values try to make everyone happy bug if it can't happen don't worry about it. It obviously isn't worth it if it doesn't go nicely

Dack
July 17th, 2011, 02:15 AM
Seems girls are more attracted to the emotional aspect than the physical and if they have looks it's just a bonus. Too bad most teenage girls don't seem to realize that looks =/= good guy.

poocsl
July 17th, 2011, 12:55 PM
Well you said you hated his guts...So why would you talk to him?

Kujiro
July 17th, 2011, 02:17 PM
Well you said you hated his guts...So why would you talk to him?

Maybe it's because the bad boys get da girls xD.

Back to the problem.
Perhaps after the week of communication and stuff.
The conversation got towards a more sexual approach.
Maybe that's what he wants afterall?

Have you considered that you are more in a crush rather than just love/like?
It's not difficult to fall in love with an online persona.
Because over the line they can portray themselves they way they want it.

Look at a simple example
I.e mobile texting
How often you get the wrong impression of the sender because it lacks emotions in a message? Or better misassumed certain messages.

Give yourself a chance and some time I'm sure the answer will reveal itself.

Mynameisconner
July 17th, 2011, 11:39 PM
Honestly: "Follow your heart". SUmmarizes all other advice.

Kujiro
July 18th, 2011, 12:04 AM
Honestly: "Follow your heart". SUmmarizes all other advice.

I second that. The truth always lies within yourself. It's more important to open up and accept what ur heart says, Over what everyone else says.

We can only advise but can't lead or make decisions for you.

Good luck and best wishes.
*winks*

IanMilo
July 19th, 2011, 10:42 PM
Based off the skype thing I think he probably just wanted a fuck buddy or something. However, don't listen to JUSt me. If you feel like there is something there that has a potential to develop go for it. Take the leap.What's the worst that could happen? You never see him again after just ONE meeting?