I need some help

[FearsomeEnder]

Theres this girl I like and i wanna go out with her but shes still attached to her ex. i just cant get my mind off of her it sucks, ive asked her out and she said that she and her ex are going to get back together in high school... Wtf do i do? shes probraly going to get shot down by her ex and be all depressed and shit and not want to date. help me please... shes also into this anime game thing with horoscopes and stuff and i even looked at our horoscope things and it said we were a good couple i really dont give a shit about horoscopes but still

[HeartCoreHannah]

The only thing you can do, is just talk to her as much as you can. Let her know you're interested in her, and if she doesn't feel the same right now, just give her time to get over her ex.

Good luck. (:

[FearsomeEnder]

well i think shes interested in me but she wants her ex more... i have very mixed emotions

[HeartCoreHannah]

I understand, how you feel. I've been in the same situation. But just give her time, once she's over him she'll come to you. Just talk to her all the time and really get to know her.

[deadzone]

to think of it i had the very same problem, i use to like this girl last year and she still liked her ex from her old town, but what i did was i mad it clear to her that i was their and i would always be their for her, i started talking to her a lot more showing her i cared a lot more about her then this other guy did.... i think it took her about 2 months to get over him (and i tell you now its not easy to sit back and wait) but when she did, it was coz she had all these feelings for me coz i have been their for her she said yes to me asking her out within the 2 months i asked her out about 3 times the third time she said yes.

the best you can do is sit back and let her get over this other guy, be their for her and be the best friend for her show her you care about her BUT do not become clingy other wise you will scare her off

[HAWAiiAN 808]

You cant force someone to be in a relationship with you if she has feelings for someone else. You just gotta give her some space to deal with whatever she has to deal with and let her know that whatever happens, you will be there for her if she needs anyone to talk to. You cant go around and take a girls emotions for granted because they cant easily get over guys that they had a relationship for a while because they develop an attachment to that guy because they can call them "their boyfriend" and i know that for most girls, its not easy to claim a guy as their boyfriend and say "i love you" because girls tend to put up their walls and see how a guy is before getting into a full relationship.

[FearsomeEnder]

You cant force someone to be in a relationship with you if she has feelings for someone else. You just gotta give her some space to deal with whatever she has to deal with and let her know that whatever happens, you will be there for her if she needs anyone to talk to. You cant go around and take a girls emotions for granted because they cant easily get over guys that they had a relationship for a while because they develop an attachment to that guy because they can call them "their boyfriend" and i know that for most girls, its not easy to claim a guy as their boyfriend and say "i love you" because girls tend to put up their walls and see how a guy is before getting into a full relationship.

Im not tring to force her in a relationship im just really worried about her her ex might break the promis and she will be depressed i dont want her feeling depressed

[BOSS]

Ahh I know the feeling bro trust me I do.

[FearsomeEnder]

I feel like im getting alot closer to her... What should i be looking for? signals?