if a girl acts cool around her friends when you are there does that mean she like you

[Nathan13]

what i mean is if she acts all cool and says shut up to her best freind and that sorta stuff does that mean she likes you becuased my friend who is her best friend says he acts way "less cool" when im not there.

[Jennifer's Ashes]

Well, I've never considered that to be the case, but I guess it might be if your friend said that.

[Tango]

I don't think so usually. Your friend might just be trying to be nice to you, most of my friends and me don't act any different around the guys we like unless we get quieter.

[Nathan13]

well i mean all my friends that are also hre friends say when im not there she quieter and like always says let go play this and stufff but when im there she is like no and like shows off?

[Sage]

Short answer: No.

[Nathan13]

what i mean does stuff to impress me but doesnt when im not there?

[Voldemort]

i dont think sooooooo

[Nathan13]

*FACEPALM*


ok so you dont think if a girl tries to impress you and act cool around you and she doesnt do it any other time you think that she still doesnt like me?

[Hatsune Miku]

Why would a girl act like an asshole to impress you? Since when does acting cool mean being a douche to your friends? I don't think shes trying to impress you or anything, and if she is, well, she doing a horrible job. That would make me less attracted to someone, not more.

[Angel Androgynous]

Uh noo...Poison explained it perfectly. xD

[Nathan13]

Why would a girl act like an asshole to impress you? Since when does acting cool mean being a douche to your friends? I don't think shes trying to impress you or anything, and if she is, well, she doing a horrible job. That would make me less attracted to someone, not more.

she is not acting like an asshole she is acting cooler saying look what i can do and stuff like that

[Angel Androgynous]

It's cool to tell your best friend to shut up? And be rude? Sorry but not in my book. (: If you find that impressive...well...to each his own....

[Nathan13]

no not shut up in a bad way kinda like "shh your embaresing me" type thing

[Angel Androgynous]

But..that's not acting "cool" that's being either
A. Rude or
B. Flustered.

[Nathan13]

ok but acting cool wasnt part of that by acying cool i mean she is doing stuff to impress me like acting cool and usually around her friends she never does it

[Angel Androgynous]

The only way to know for sure is if she tells you. That's just sending mixed signals. (:

[Nathan13]

ok but at least you understand what i mean.

im only saying this becuase i like have been liking her and now everyone is telling me that she is acting differently

[Angel Androgynous]

Acting differently can mean anything! ^_^ If you think she likes you, then get to know her and maybe ask her out! The worst she can do is say no. (:

[Hatsune Miku]

I don't like girls who act cool anyway. I like weird girls. My girlfriends a weirdo, like me. I enjoy that. I dunno about you though but I wouldn't like someone who pretends to be someone they aren't.

[Hope4u]

it doesn't really mean anything..stop trying to read into everything and just talk to her.

[Modus Operandi]

Probably not.

If you want to know with reasonable certainty if someone has feelings for you, pay attention to body language. Most people have a terrible time controlling it, and don't even realize they're doing certain "tells", so to speak. Google it and read up a bit, you'll probably find it interesting.

One quick example: if she looks at you with her head down but her eyes up to meet yours, she's either rather shy (which is more likely, in all honesty) or she may fancy you. Take that with a grain of salt; not everyone is the same.

[Nicky97]

Talk to her.... yes.

But I'm with you on this Nathan. It is very possible that she has a big interest in you. The sophisticated girls here are telling you they don't think it's a wise way for a girl to act, but who's to say what your girl is feeling or how she handles what she feels.

Everyone is different, and asking other people how this girl feels is, well, not getting you anywhere. It could be, or maybe not. Until you put the time in to get to know her better, and the gumption to talk honestly with her, you will never know. And no one else is going to be able to tell you. Good luck.