Help im confused

[Nathan13]

ok so when i was 11(im 14 now) i was going out with agirl but then when i was 12 she broke up and she moved after that then anout a month ago i moved house and met this new girl i like and then last night her best friend says she like me and then on fb the other girl now says she likes me and i like both of them and dont know what to do??

[Hatsune Miku]

I've, along with many others, have been in this situation, where you like two people but don't know who to choose. Take a few things into consideration. Who do you think you would be happier with? Who do you think you'll last longer with? Who do you trust more? Making the choice between two people can be hard but you just need to ask yourself questions and try and decide who you think is best for you.

[Sage]

Relationships your age don't last anyway, so go with the more attractive one.

[Nathan13]

i likie both but i wanna go out with the new girl but then if we break up i dont know if the old one would still like me?

[Hatsune Miku]

It's about taking chances. They both like you, so you just have to decide, "Well, who would I be happier with?" And whichever you pick, talk to the other about it and ask them if you can just be friends. It's a hard thing to choose between two people. If you can't choose then don't choose between either of them. You won't be taking chances and nobody will get hurt. Just wait until somebody else comes along and you know for sure that you want to be with them.

Now, this advice is just from my personal experiences. It may be different for you, but for me this is what I thought and what I did.

And Tim, 3 (3 aunts, 3 uncles) of my aunts and uncles started dating in 8th grade and 7th. Now they've been married for years, all have kids.

[Sage]

And Tim, 3 (3 aunts, 3 uncles) of my aunts and uncles started dating in 8th grade and 7th. Now they've been married for years, all have kids.

Three couples are no more representative of relationships in general than the small handful of people who survive sky-diving accidents. Be as selective or hopeful as you like, I feel it is most probable to assume a relationship at that age won't work out, at least 9 times out of 10. Hell, I may even say 99 times out of 100, if not more.

You're going to meet hundreds and thousands of people in your life, kiddo, about half of them will be female. You don't need to commit to any one person or another at your age (or any age, really) so go for whichever one has better assets (physical or otherwise) and don't sweat it if things don't last.